Supersnake of Kiss FM, a nationally syndicated radio show reels an unsuspecting husband into this trap by offering him tickets for a concert. He starts by asking the wife, what the issue is. She explains they’ve been living there for three years and that they got married just before they moved to America (from India).

She goes on to explain it was an arranged marriage and covers a few more details of their move to America. However, she has her suspicions that he may be cheating on her.

Long story short, Raj (the cheating husband), ends up telling Supersnake that he wants the tickets given to Nikki instead of his wife. I’m sure we can all imagine where this goes from here.

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I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me: Why Men Are Never Published In Dear AbbyThis is a pretty accurate portrayal of a man in a relationship. We often read stories of women cheating because they are lonely or feel neglected. After all, it is the man’s role to make the money and supply the love: give, give give. In return, when a woman feels she isn’t receiving enough love or enough financial support, it validates her reasons for looking elsewhere.

As a result, men are taught at a young age to work hard and succeed. Not necessarily in love, but in work. To get that degree, get that management position, get that sale or that client. Men are taught to focus on the financial and business end of life and that love will fall in there somewhere. Truth is that not many men truly understand what they want or how to get it because they’re focused on the more important things – in this case… well, read on:

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Flag of Senegal Africa - Wives Cheating on HusbandsI’ve long heard of men cheating on their wives in Africa with no consequence and as a result increasing the spread of AIDS, but I also recall it’s almost taboo for the wife to do anything other than stand by. As you may or may not know, rapper Akon is from Senegal, Africa and supposedly practices polygamy with his three wives although this may just be a rumor to increase buzz. Buzz or not, he has gone on record stating that all Africans believe in polygamy.

Well, AllAfrica.com is reporting that women are starting to get revenge on their husbands by having their own extra-marital affairs.

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Ugg,

Why do women like to be treated like crap? Why do women always love the assholes and never the nice guys?

Simple, to the point, but a question with more depth than most. Women enjoy sex as much as men do, just not necessarily as often as men do. Not really by design, it’s just that men are easier to stimulate than women and as a result, men are ready to go much more often.

Let’s take a look at a related video:

The reason women go for men like The Jerk is because they get attention almost all day. Men don’t truly get this because most men don’t get ogled all day long as women do. Even the most unattractive women can still be lusted after if she’s got a decent body. Moreover, with the help of a slightly aggressive wardrobe, women can go from fugly to decent in no time.

As a result, women are put on a pedastool because the supply of what they offer (sex) is lower than the demand for what they offer. Guys end up worshiping women and as a result lower their own social value to the women they’re fawning over.

Women enjoy the power of their sex. However, they all want a strong man who’s frame supports being lusted after as well. Women want the attention and in fact often even NEED it, but when it comes to who they choose, they don’t want a slave, they want an equal. Someone who can look them on equal terms and say “No” from time to time. Not even wanting her adds more points to his hotness factor.

There’s a lot more to this, but the key is that women don’t necessarily love being treated like dirt. They just love the type of guy that tends to treat women like crap. You can stay a nice guy, but watch the man the woman is falling for if you truly want some insight. The little things he does or doesn’t do can be added to your arsenal for later.

Remember, when watching TV you don’t remember the boring commercials you saw. You’ve become desensitized to them as women have become desensitized to men who do nice things for them. Instead, you remember that HEAD ON commercial or some other super annoying commercial.

You see, what you need to do is break apart from the pack to gain recognition. Buying a girl a drink, saying she looks nice, telling her how pretty or cool she is… guys do that all day long trying to earn her favor. It’s when you can SAFELY (go overboard and you’re in creep territory) break that complacency she has with men that you make yourself memorable. Don’t call her cool, call her a brat. Don’t tell her she’s pretty, tell her that when she smiles her chin wrinkles and that you think it’s cute.

The key is to realize what a woman hears all day long… And then to NOT do that.

Ever find yourself in a conversation that you wish could last longer, but instead slowly dies out into nothingness? Eventually everything interesting has been said and you’re back to the standard “So what are you in school for” and the “What do you do for work?” lines. You don’t particularly care about the response and they’re likely just answering out of politeness.

The number one way to avoid getting caught up in a dying conversation is to constantly change the venue. When going out, make sure that there are other places in very close proximity that you can ‘bounce’ to after you meet someone interesting. Know a little bit about them (do they charge a cover? is there a redeeming quality about that place?) so that you can recommend them with ease.

This has the additional benefit of making you look like the savant of the night. Like a well-learned traveler, you’ll find women will flock to your side because you’re exciting. You’re not the guy that stands with a drink raised at hip level looking around the bar all night like a hungry jackal. No, you’re too busy for that! This is a highly desirable trait to women who are out looking for fun.

How Does This Help You Get Laid?

  • You’re the Alpha Male of the group – Being the alpha male of the group is important. By acting as the leader and recommending a place more exciting than the one you’re at, you appear in charge and also knowledgeable of places of interest.
  • A change in location reduces tension and stress – Subconsciously, when you move to a new location, you are no longer the guy they met at the bar. Instead, you’re an exciting man they had the pleasure of running into, who is out to show them some fun, and knows where and how to have it. At a new location, the scenery is different, their defenses are down, and you have a good slate to work with. Most guys at bars are full of crappy pickup lines – you are just a fun guy.
  • It allows women to get comfortable with you – Bouncing around is great because it allows the physical interaction of being led. Extend your arm for them to wrap theirs around, extend your hand for them to grab on to, get their hearts beating harder with a little physical exercise. As all this happens, comfort builds and the woman can see you in a more relaxed light. Suddenly it’s almost as if you’re on a second date, only minutes into the interaction

Good bounce spots are typically quieter. If you’re at a club, talking will be hard, so leading to a quieter spot will allow you to chat a bit easier. Remain consistent. If you met at a venue serving alcohol, make sure the next one does too. Remember on a drinking night, most folks are there until closing time so they don’t want to waste time talking when they could be working on their social lubrication.

Avoid The ‘Do You Want To’ Question

If there’s one rule to this, remember that it’s never asking “Do you want to”… Of course they want to, you’re an exciting guy! Additionally, this makes you look weak, as if you need permission to be cool. It’s best to lead with a strong frame and allow the woman to feel comfortable trusting your judgment. After all, even if they say no, there’s no reason you still can’t bounce, meet someone there, and then bring them BACK to the bar you just left.

Bouncing works both ways and is a GREAT way to get the night started in a fun way.

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