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	<title>Comments for AskUgg! - Cheating, Relationships, Dating, Sex, Intimacy, Infidelity, It's all here!</title>
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	<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:15:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Why Do Women Prefer To Be Spanked?  Women Prefer A Man That Resembles Their Dad&#8230; by Houssam</title>
		<link>http://www.askugg.com/2007/06/22/why-do-women-prefer-to-be-spanked-women-prefer-a-man-that-resembles-their-dad/#comment-28204</link>
		<author>Houssam</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 09:48:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I would like 2 be yr Husband 4 &#62; one week!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would like 2 be yr Husband 4 &gt; one week!</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Top 8 Ways For a Woman To Have a Successful Affair by Richard</title>
		<link>http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/the-top-8-ways-for-a-woman-to-have-a-successful-affair/#comment-28172</link>
		<author>Richard</author>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 12:22:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/the-top-8-ways-for-a-woman-to-have-a-successful-affair/#comment-28172</guid>
					<description>This is such a niche, I was simply on here to polish up on my skills as like the editor I am attracted to married women that are bored in their mundane lifes. I have always thought to my self that I do their husbands a service because I accomodate their sexual needs no matter how bizzare, I have to pay for lunch's, I listen to them whinge and moan about their boring day, then I have to give them sex to a standard that is better then their husbands and for all you know he is a machine, then get changed have a shower, lie to my girlfriend and live with what very little guilt I have and all this to please some stranger woman.... And people think were the bad ones, if middle aged men didn't get lazy and boring then I wouldn't be shagging their wifes whilst they are fishing etc.

I love the site, I want to add more tips;

*hairs on clothes and car head rests etc - pick them off

*when returning to your husband think of a sad thought, big smiles stand out a mile away and whilst you limp up stairs don't think how thick is this guy because he will get suspicious

* don't act outside your schedule, if you Finnish work at 5, go home at 5! Late nights etc just arouse suspicion.

*make sure the cheating wife and bit on the side understand what you both want - this will bring no love, just lust so slap yourself and go back to your husband

* don't meet in hotels... DODGY as can be, who you kidding with mr and mrs smith? Visit estate agents to ask for keys to view a house leave them £200 quid deposit take the keys back and use that! Think on your feet</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is such a niche, I was simply on here to polish up on my skills as like the editor I am attracted to married women that are bored in their mundane lifes. I have always thought to my self that I do their husbands a service because I accomodate their sexual needs no matter how bizzare, I have to pay for lunch&#8217;s, I listen to them whinge and moan about their boring day, then I have to give them sex to a standard that is better then their husbands and for all you know he is a machine, then get changed have a shower, lie to my girlfriend and live with what very little guilt I have and all this to please some stranger woman&#8230;. And people think were the bad ones, if middle aged men didn&#8217;t get lazy and boring then I wouldn&#8217;t be shagging their wifes whilst they are fishing etc.</p>
<p>I love the site, I want to add more tips;</p>
<p>*hairs on clothes and car head rests etc - pick them off</p>
<p>*when returning to your husband think of a sad thought, big smiles stand out a mile away and whilst you limp up stairs don&#8217;t think how thick is this guy because he will get suspicious</p>
<p>* don&#8217;t act outside your schedule, if you Finnish work at 5, go home at 5! Late nights etc just arouse suspicion.</p>
<p>*make sure the cheating wife and bit on the side understand what you both want - this will bring no love, just lust so slap yourself and go back to your husband</p>
<p>* don&#8217;t meet in hotels&#8230; DODGY as can be, who you kidding with mr and mrs smith? Visit estate agents to ask for keys to view a house leave them £200 quid deposit take the keys back and use that! Think on your feet</p>
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		<title>Comment on Vasectomy: $400. The Speechless Look On Her Face: Priceless by bandcamper</title>
		<link>http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/vasectomy-400-the-speechless-look-on-her-face-priceless/#comment-27687</link>
		<author>bandcamper</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jun 2009 02:09:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/vasectomy-400-the-speechless-look-on-her-face-priceless/#comment-27687</guid>
					<description>This happened to me. i had the vasectomy 5 years ago. Crazy tried the whole "I'm Pregnant" stunt with me. I led her on for the whole pregnancy and a week before the due date, that was when I dropped the bomb.   I figured that i saved the other guys from her hassles.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This happened to me. i had the vasectomy 5 years ago. Crazy tried the whole &#8220;I&#8217;m Pregnant&#8221; stunt with me. I led her on for the whole pregnancy and a week before the due date, that was when I dropped the bomb.   I figured that i saved the other guys from her hassles.</p>
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		<title>Comment on My Boyfriend Visits Dating And Singles Sites - Is He Cheating On Me? by Andrea</title>
		<link>http://www.askugg.com/2007/04/18/my-boyfriend-visits-dating-and-singles-sites-is-he-cheating-on-me/#comment-27611</link>
		<author>Andrea</author>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2009 05:25:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I met my boyfriend on the internent whcih was something new for me.  Recently we broke up because I discovered, not "snooping" while I thought I was checking my own yahoo site e-mail that I was actually on his Yahoo site and I could not figure out who these people were that were contacting me until I began to read the mail and it was responses from women that he contacted.   As adults we ALL look and some of us even touch, however after being together close to a year and my boyfriend was still searching for what may be out there, it was disturbing.  The whole while he appeared to be very happy that we had found each other, however it is a lil insulting and hurtful when your guy continues to look at other women, all the while telling you and trying to show you how happy he is that he met you.  The most disturbing thing about my boyfriends site when I learned which one he belonged to was that I met NONE of the criteria that he listed down when he listed what type of women would be "ideal for him".  Believe me I was not snooping I was extremley suprised that he would communicate with other women in a sexual way when I imagined I was the person he wanted  to contact and talk to and all the while he was up late on the laptop while I would be sleeping, looking for what he felt was someone better   I've learned that if you are truley happy with the person you are with, there really is not anybody else that you would have an interest in  I was asking for  more heartache to continue a relationship with someone that could not bring themselves to discontinue the converstations, especially when I did confront him and let him know that if we were in a serious relationship and it did not work out with us, it's not like he cannot go back and rejoin these sites.  I feel it makes some of us women feel that we are not good enough for the man that initially picked us in the first place.  No I don't believe that he ever met up with any of these women but I felt it was disrespectful to me to pretend as though he was an unattached man and he really was not because we were together.  I don't beleive many people are looking to cheat when they are on these sites but I always felt that the sites were for you to meet  someone and once you have met someone, discontinue your search.  I know it made me feel as though I was not good enough for him therefore I broke up with him and wished him well with his method of intenet dating or "looking" because prior to being with me anyone that he did meet on any of these sites the relationship was very short lived according to him so it kind of tells me that he was not all that successful with keeping a woman, finding one is easy but to keep her around and make her feel appreciated can be a challenge for some men</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I met my boyfriend on the internent whcih was something new for me.  Recently we broke up because I discovered, not &#8220;snooping&#8221; while I thought I was checking my own yahoo site e-mail that I was actually on his Yahoo site and I could not figure out who these people were that were contacting me until I began to read the mail and it was responses from women that he contacted.   As adults we ALL look and some of us even touch, however after being together close to a year and my boyfriend was still searching for what may be out there, it was disturbing.  The whole while he appeared to be very happy that we had found each other, however it is a lil insulting and hurtful when your guy continues to look at other women, all the while telling you and trying to show you how happy he is that he met you.  The most disturbing thing about my boyfriends site when I learned which one he belonged to was that I met NONE of the criteria that he listed down when he listed what type of women would be &#8220;ideal for him&#8221;.  Believe me I was not snooping I was extremley suprised that he would communicate with other women in a sexual way when I imagined I was the person he wanted  to contact and talk to and all the while he was up late on the laptop while I would be sleeping, looking for what he felt was someone better   I&#8217;ve learned that if you are truley happy with the person you are with, there really is not anybody else that you would have an interest in  I was asking for  more heartache to continue a relationship with someone that could not bring themselves to discontinue the converstations, especially when I did confront him and let him know that if we were in a serious relationship and it did not work out with us, it&#8217;s not like he cannot go back and rejoin these sites.  I feel it makes some of us women feel that we are not good enough for the man that initially picked us in the first place.  No I don&#8217;t believe that he ever met up with any of these women but I felt it was disrespectful to me to pretend as though he was an unattached man and he really was not because we were together.  I don&#8217;t beleive many people are looking to cheat when they are on these sites but I always felt that the sites were for you to meet  someone and once you have met someone, discontinue your search.  I know it made me feel as though I was not good enough for him therefore I broke up with him and wished him well with his method of intenet dating or &#8220;looking&#8221; because prior to being with me anyone that he did meet on any of these sites the relationship was very short lived according to him so it kind of tells me that he was not all that successful with keeping a woman, finding one is easy but to keep her around and make her feel appreciated can be a challenge for some men</p>
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		<title>Comment on Who Cheats More? Do Women Cheat More Than Men?  Or Do Men Cheat More Than Women? by Hamid Mushtaq</title>
		<link>http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/who-cheats-more-do-women-cheat-more-than-men-or-do-men-cheat-more-than-women/#comment-27377</link>
		<author>Hamid Mushtaq</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 00:04:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I think this study is a fraud. I don't believe in it, because it is interest of durex to promote sex and by exaggerating facts, they are inticing people to indulge more hence increasing their profits.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think this study is a fraud. I don&#8217;t believe in it, because it is interest of durex to promote sex and by exaggerating facts, they are inticing people to indulge more hence increasing their profits.</p>
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		<title>Comment on I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Used To Sleep Around A Lot - What Do I Do? by chimp</title>
		<link>http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/i-just-found-out-my-girlfriend-used-to-sleep-around-a-lot-what-do-i-do/#comment-27344</link>
		<author>chimp</author>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 03:24:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>its up to you, I think every guy is haunted by images of their girlfriends past. Thats a really young time to become that sexually active and I wouldn't be surprised if there are other issues going on. At the same time, she was really young. Easy to take advantage of and not secure enough to say no once she got started. Maybe you can make it work by helping her through whatever caused it in the first place. But if my girl had slept with not one but two people I hated, I wouldn't be able to deal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>its up to you, I think every guy is haunted by images of their girlfriends past. Thats a really young time to become that sexually active and I wouldn&#8217;t be surprised if there are other issues going on. At the same time, she was really young. Easy to take advantage of and not secure enough to say no once she got started. Maybe you can make it work by helping her through whatever caused it in the first place. But if my girl had slept with not one but two people I hated, I wouldn&#8217;t be able to deal.</p>
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		<title>Comment on I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me: Why Men Are Never Published In Dear Abby by dee</title>
		<link>http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/15/i-think-my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-why-men-are-never-published-in-dear-abby/#comment-27277</link>
		<author>dee</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 07:04:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>i can look up cell phone records but it does not show text number. She seems to have two personalities and me and the kids dont know what to do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i can look up cell phone records but it does not show text number. She seems to have two personalities and me and the kids dont know what to do.</p>
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		<title>Comment on I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me: Why Men Are Never Published In Dear Abby by dee</title>
		<link>http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/15/i-think-my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-why-men-are-never-published-in-dear-abby/#comment-27276</link>
		<author>dee</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 06:59:59 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>what would you do if your wife claims to just be talking as friends but you read a text on her phone were he ask for more</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>what would you do if your wife claims to just be talking as friends but you read a text on her phone were he ask for more</p>
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		<title>Comment on There Is ZERO Benefit For A Man In Marriage.  3 Popular Marriage Myths Debunked! by Ja</title>
		<link>http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/there-is-zero-benefit-for-a-man-in-marriage-3-popular-marriage-myths-debunked/#comment-26139</link>
		<author>Ja</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 13:16:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Been together for 17 years,married 12 of those.Marriage is GREAT. Sex is fantastic &#38; very regular. I still feel the same about my wife to when we first met &#38; started dating. It`s certainly something people SHOULD DO if it`s truely the right person. My key advice is COMMUNICATION,UNDERSTANDING &#38; Mostly KNOWING a Marriage is a 50/50 commitment (Unlike so many where one half does the majority of the work). Our proest told us after our vows were said "Well that`s the easy part,now to make your marriage work takes hard work.Even when your arguing to say I Love You,even through gritted teeth". We have pretty much laughed at it though also followed it &#38; as said 17years happily together. We still walk around like to love birds (people in the early part of a relationship) &#38; for me,I Think that`s GREAT.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Been together for 17 years,married 12 of those.Marriage is GREAT. Sex is fantastic &amp; very regular. I still feel the same about my wife to when we first met &amp; started dating. It`s certainly something people SHOULD DO if it`s truely the right person. My key advice is COMMUNICATION,UNDERSTANDING &amp; Mostly KNOWING a Marriage is a 50/50 commitment (Unlike so many where one half does the majority of the work). Our proest told us after our vows were said &#8220;Well that`s the easy part,now to make your marriage work takes hard work.Even when your arguing to say I Love You,even through gritted teeth&#8221;. We have pretty much laughed at it though also followed it &amp; as said 17years happily together. We still walk around like to love birds (people in the early part of a relationship) &amp; for me,I Think that`s GREAT.</p>
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		<title>Comment on I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Used To Sleep Around A Lot - What Do I Do? by Insecure person</title>
		<link>http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/i-just-found-out-my-girlfriend-used-to-sleep-around-a-lot-what-do-i-do/#comment-25333</link>
		<author>Insecure person</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 02:49:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I met my girlfriend when she was 15 and I was 18, some may not approve but it was nothing funny, anyway that's a different story. 

Before meeting her I have only been with 1 woman due to feeling sexually inadequate after spending most of my life around 2 'good-looking bullies' who always took everyone I liked. After developing a relationship with my current girlfriend I find out she lost her virginity at 14, slept with 13 people inbetween then and me meeting her (two of them being, well, guess who) and it makes me so insecure. On several occasions I have had to listen to her friends tell her about lads she has been with saying stuff about her nails in their back and other stuff I really didn't wanna hear. She says she regrets it but it dosen't help. Any advice apart from 'leave her' would be appreciated as that will be a last resort as I have been with her for a year now. :-(

Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I met my girlfriend when she was 15 and I was 18, some may not approve but it was nothing funny, anyway that&#8217;s a different story. </p>
<p>Before meeting her I have only been with 1 woman due to feeling sexually inadequate after spending most of my life around 2 &#8216;good-looking bullies&#8217; who always took everyone I liked. After developing a relationship with my current girlfriend I find out she lost her virginity at 14, slept with 13 people inbetween then and me meeting her (two of them being, well, guess who) and it makes me so insecure. On several occasions I have had to listen to her friends tell her about lads she has been with saying stuff about her nails in their back and other stuff I really didn&#8217;t wanna hear. She says she regrets it but it dosen&#8217;t help. Any advice apart from &#8216;leave her&#8217; would be appreciated as that will be a last resort as I have been with her for a year now. <img src='http://www.askugg.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
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