Comments for AskUgg! - Cheating, Relationships, Dating, Sex, Intimacy, Infidelity, It's all here! http://www.askugg.com AskUgg.com discusses Cheating, Relationships, Dating, Sex, Intimacy, Infidelity, and more! Fri, 08 Aug 2008 21:00:19 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.2 Comment on *CAUGHT!* - I’m Cheating On My Husband With My Best Friend While My Husband Is Deployed In Iraq… by Ugg http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-12319 Ugg Mon, 04 Aug 2008 16:47:43 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-12319 Wow Jeff! Thanks for the comment - it seems that dads are winning more often nowadays and sometimes with good reason to. Sorry for the circumstances, but it seems that you have the upper hand. Hopefully you make that work for you. It's cliche, but the best revenge really is living a great life. Wow Jeff!

Thanks for the comment - it seems that dads are winning more often nowadays and sometimes with good reason to.

Sorry for the circumstances, but it seems that you have the upper hand. Hopefully you make that work for you. It’s cliche, but the best revenge really is living a great life.

]]> Comment on *CAUGHT!* - I’m Cheating On My Husband With My Best Friend While My Husband Is Deployed In Iraq… by Jeff http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-12153 Jeff Sun, 03 Aug 2008 06:21:36 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-12153 I found out my wife was cheating while I was in Afghanistan! I had a feeling something was wrong, so I hacked into her email and found their letters to each other about their contact from the night before. I was sick over it. I requested leave immediately and was home two weeks later. I wanted to kill them both, and damn near did. It took a lot for me not to. The guy she had the affair with is also in the military and has never deployed! I have been to Iraq twice and was on my first deployment in Afghanistan. As if we don't have enough on our plate without the person we are supposed to rely on the most becoming the enemy. I have not seen him yet, but it is just a matter of time before I do. I have the proof of the affair which is now with the Inspector General. He won't have a job for long, but that is still not good enough. He can't hide from me forever. As far as life goes for her. SHE lost the house and will have only visitation with the 2 children we made together. For once the father wins! I found out my wife was cheating while I was in Afghanistan! I had a feeling something was wrong, so I hacked into her email and found their letters to each other about their contact from the night before. I was sick over it. I requested leave immediately and was home two weeks later. I wanted to kill them both, and damn near did. It took a lot for me not to. The guy she had the affair with is also in the military and has never deployed! I have been to Iraq twice and was on my first deployment in Afghanistan. As if we don’t have enough on our plate without the person we are supposed to rely on the most becoming the enemy. I have not seen him yet, but it is just a matter of time before I do. I have the proof of the affair which is now with the Inspector General. He won’t have a job for long, but that is still not good enough. He can’t hide from me forever. As far as life goes for her. SHE lost the house and will have only visitation with the 2 children we made together. For once the father wins!

]]> Comment on Ask Ugg! by Nikki http://www.askugg.com/ask-ugg/#comment-11536 Nikki Tue, 29 Jul 2008 21:03:06 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/ask-ugg/#comment-11536 I am having a problem with my boyfriend thinking I cheated on him. If you love her and she says she did not cheat on you, you need to beleive her! I can just say from my situation that she did not cheat on you. I have had my boyfriend saying the samething because of phone records. I am having a problem with my boyfriend thinking I cheated on him. If you love her and she says she did not cheat on you, you need to beleive her! I can just say from my situation that she did not cheat on you. I have had my boyfriend saying the samething because of phone records.

]]> Comment on 3 Great Introductions For Meeting Girls On Myspace by This Is What A Woman Sees When She Logs Into Her Online Dating Inbox | AskUgg! | Cheating, Relationships, Dating, Sex, Intimacy, Infidelity, It’s all here! http://www.askugg.com/2007/05/19/3-great-introductions-for-meeting-girls-on-myspace/#comment-10522 This Is What A Woman Sees When She Logs Into Her Online Dating Inbox | AskUgg! | Cheating, Relationships, Dating, Sex, Intimacy, Infidelity, It’s all here! Tue, 22 Jul 2008 23:27:09 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/05/19/3-great-introductions-for-meeting-girls-on-myspace/#comment-10522 [...] these pictures prove that many men lack any sort of “online game”. There are a few things to message a girl with that will help get responses, but they’re not “Hi”, “Hey”, or an empty subject [...] […] these pictures prove that many men lack any sort of “online game”. There are a few things to message a girl with that will help get responses, but they’re not “Hi”, “Hey”, or an empty subject […]

]]> Comment on Why Do Women Prefer To Be Spanked? Women Prefer A Man That Resembles Their Dad… by Charley http://www.askugg.com/2007/06/22/why-do-women-prefer-to-be-spanked-women-prefer-a-man-that-resembles-their-dad/#comment-9818 Charley Fri, 11 Jul 2008 17:34:16 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/06/22/why-do-women-prefer-to-be-spanked-women-prefer-a-man-that-resembles-their-dad/#comment-9818 What's the big mystery about many women liking to play in the bedroom, but wanting proper respect outside the bedroom? It makes perfect sense to me and doesn't mystify me at all. That's where the saying, "A lady in public and a whore in private" comes from. Women like that are awesome! They're proper and respectable in public so you can take them home to mom and be proud, and introduce them to coworkers and be proud, and if a guy goes to church, he can bring her there and be proud fo her. She won't embarrass him in public with slutty behavior because she is a respectable lady. Yet in private she's got a lot of pentup bad girl that needs to be released and she wants to play hard and naughty. What's wrong with that? Nothing! Polar women like this are fantastic! I prefer women who are proper and respectable in public and naughty in private. That's where the saying, "Naughty, but nice" comes from, or as I like to say, "Nice and naughty". It's about keeping behavior appropriate to the circumstances and moment. I love women like that. By contrast, I had two GFs who were consistently naughty and they embarrassed me and humiliated me many times in public. Like one time I introduced one of them to my 80 year old neighbor ladies and she told them a blow job joke. OMG. Not funny. At the other extreme of consistent behavior is the girls/women who are consistently proper at all times in all places. Good in public, but frustrating in the bedroom. Do you have any idea how frustrating it is for a man to be with a beautiful women who won't do anything in bed her mom or preacher didn't give her permission to do? Women who display consistant behavior across all circumstance (i.e. - all good girl or all bad girl) are always inappropriate a portion of the time. Women who adapt their behavior to the circumstance are behaving appropriately to the situation. i.e. - a lady in public, and a naughty spankofile in private who might even let a guy do some things he's never done before. What’s the big mystery about many women liking to play in the bedroom, but wanting proper respect outside the bedroom? It makes perfect sense to me and doesn’t mystify me at all.

That’s where the saying, “A lady in public and a whore in private” comes from.

Women like that are awesome! They’re proper and respectable in public so you can take them home to mom and be proud, and introduce them to coworkers and be proud, and if a guy goes to church, he can bring her there and be proud fo her. She won’t embarrass him in public with slutty behavior because she is a respectable lady.

Yet in private she’s got a lot of pentup bad girl that needs to be released and she wants to play hard and naughty. What’s wrong with that? Nothing! Polar women like this are fantastic!

I prefer women who are proper and respectable in public and naughty in private. That’s where the saying, “Naughty, but nice” comes from, or as I like to say, “Nice and naughty”.

It’s about keeping behavior appropriate to the circumstances and moment. I love women like that.

By contrast, I had two GFs who were consistently naughty and they embarrassed me and humiliated me many times in public. Like one time I introduced one of them to my 80 year old neighbor ladies and she told them a blow job joke. OMG. Not funny.

At the other extreme of consistent behavior is the girls/women who are consistently proper at all times in all places. Good in public, but frustrating in the bedroom. Do you have any idea how frustrating it is for a man to be with a beautiful women who won’t do anything in bed her mom or preacher didn’t give her permission to do?

Women who display consistant behavior across all circumstance (i.e. - all good girl or all bad girl) are always inappropriate a portion of the time. Women who adapt their behavior to the circumstance are behaving appropriately to the situation. i.e. - a lady in public, and a naughty spankofile in private who might even let a guy do some things he’s never done before.

]]> Comment on Men And Marriage - She Gets An Expensive Ring, Dress, Wedding.. What Do I Get? by sahar http://www.askugg.com/2007/04/02/men-and-marriage-she-gets-an-expensive-ring-dress-wedding-what-do-i-get/#comment-9799 sahar Thu, 10 Jul 2008 06:36:14 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/04/02/men-and-marriage-she-gets-an-expensive-ring-dress-wedding-what-do-i-get/#comment-9799 in today's materialistic world,where people yearn for branded commodities,expensive wedding rings have become a status symbol.with the result that marriages have becum a sheer show off and a burden on families who cant afford to indulge insuch garish extravagances. in today’s materialistic world,where people yearn for branded commodities,expensive wedding rings have become a status symbol.with the result that marriages have becum a sheer show off and a burden on families who cant afford to indulge insuch garish extravagances.

]]> Comment on Husband To Wife On National Radio Show: I Cheat On You Because “American Women Use The Mouth… You Don’t Know How To Use The Mouth” by Colleen http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/17/husband-to-wife-on-national-radio-show-i-cheat-on-you-because-american-women-use-the-mouth-you-dont-know-how-to-use-the-mouth/#comment-9505 Colleen Fri, 04 Jul 2008 18:54:53 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/17/husband-to-wife-on-national-radio-show-i-cheat-on-you-because-american-women-use-the-mouth-you-dont-know-how-to-use-the-mouth/#comment-9505 The male voice you are hearing is that of a professional comedian and voiceover talent who also wrote the bit. He opens frequently for Russell Peters - Dan Nainan, Indian Comedian. You can find out more about him at www.nainan.com. The male voice you are hearing is that of a professional comedian and voiceover talent who also wrote the bit. He opens frequently for Russell Peters - Dan Nainan, Indian Comedian. You can find out more about him at www.nainan.com.

]]> Comment on My Boyfriend Visits Dating And Singles Sites - Is He Cheating On Me? by Ashley http://www.askugg.com/2007/04/18/my-boyfriend-visits-dating-and-singles-sites-is-he-cheating-on-me/#comment-9344 Ashley Thu, 26 Jun 2008 05:01:02 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/04/18/my-boyfriend-visits-dating-and-singles-sites-is-he-cheating-on-me/#comment-9344 I found my man on NUMEROUS sex and dating sites. I deleted the ones I could (finding his password/username via his email.) There was one I could not delete, because he is PAYING $24.99 a month for. So...I created my own account, delete all his little buddies off his page, added myself to his page (am now his only buddy), then I changed his whole profile saying he was gay and looking for a man, telling everyone how he likes to cheat, and put his display pic as one of him and I. It still hurts and he doesn't even know I've done this yet (did it today.) He'll be in for a surprise when he goes to log in. However, I can't help the anger...I've been snapping at him all day and told him it was over. He was like..."Where did this come from?? What is wrong?? What did I do??" Since this isn't the first time he's done it, there is no need to explain...there is not need to 'talk' about anything. It's done and over and he'll soon see why. I'm disgusted. I found my man on NUMEROUS sex and dating sites. I deleted the ones I could (finding his password/username via his email.) There was one I could not delete, because he is PAYING $24.99 a month for. So…I created my own account, delete all his little buddies off his page, added myself to his page (am now his only buddy), then I changed his whole profile saying he was gay and looking for a man, telling everyone how he likes to cheat, and put his display pic as one of him and I. It still hurts and he doesn’t even know I’ve done this yet (did it today.) He’ll be in for a surprise when he goes to log in. However, I can’t help the anger…I’ve been snapping at him all day and told him it was over. He was like…”Where did this come from?? What is wrong?? What did I do??” Since this isn’t the first time he’s done it, there is no need to explain…there is not need to ‘talk’ about anything. It’s done and over and he’ll soon see why. I’m disgusted.

]]> Comment on 7 Tips To Easily Have A Successful Threesome by Rob http://www.askugg.com/2007/05/19/7-tips-to-easily-have-a-successful-threesome/#comment-9274 Rob Tue, 24 Jun 2008 21:57:15 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/05/19/7-tips-to-easily-have-a-successful-threesome/#comment-9274 My wife & I are thinking about a 3some with another guy. Also one with another girl. This could get interesting! Any tips on an extra guy in the bed? My wife & I are thinking about a 3some with another guy. Also one with another girl. This could get interesting! Any tips on an extra guy in the bed?

]]> Comment on I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me: Why Men Are Never Published In Dear Abby by Jim http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/15/i-think-my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-why-men-are-never-published-in-dear-abby/#comment-9126 Jim Sun, 22 Jun 2008 10:55:16 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/15/i-think-my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-why-men-are-never-published-in-dear-abby/#comment-9126 I found this page through a Google search for "cheating wife" because I just caught mine cheating. THANK YOU! This was the first good laugh I have had since I discovered. PS George, it was a joke. You response was almost as funny. I found this page through a Google search for “cheating wife” because I just caught mine cheating. THANK YOU! This was the first good laugh I have had since I discovered.

PS George, it was a joke. You response was almost as funny.

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