Having used online dating sites in the past myself, I think it’s also important that guys READ THE PROFILE.

Nothing is worse than reading a msg from someone who either contradicts what you said in your profile or asks a question that was answered in your profile. Women don’t spend all that time writing about themselves for you to ignore it and send a msg entirely based on our pictures. Silly men….

I’m jason and i would like to put my storie in this about cheating. A few years ago when i was a jr in college i had a girlfriend julie for 3 years then and it it was the end of finals week so me and my roomate whent to a party and there i met brittany and we would eventually sleep together and started dating the next week while still with julie. So i went back home and told her and i had told my friend this (alex) who told julie now i was pissed becuase he broke my trust. i officially broke up with julie and dated brittany and she left for her hometown. It was that weekend that i went to another party with my friends and cheated on britnay with lauren who was dating my friend at the time. The next day lauren called her bf (who she has no buisnessed dating anyway) and he came over that night and bitched her out i stayed out the way. so i told britany that i had cheaterd on her5 and she broe the relationship right there. Just last december me and julie got back together and in janurary i got sick. i tried to call and text her but to no avail and me, julie, and alex whom she calls her “best friend at the time’ were supposed to hang out but i was sick so he went over to her place and i thought nothing of it cuz we were good friends then. I then found out that he stayed the night at julies place and i was really pissed then. i did not know what to believe anymore and how long were they doing this. So thats were im left hanging and have broken ties with alex but for some reason i will still respond to julie when she texts or emails me every 4-6 months. half of me still loves her and the other half wants to tie a 500lb lead weight to her ankles and throw the weight over the boat and send 5000 feet below. but i cant find a connectoin with other women like i had with julie. it has me pretty confused and left to wait in the dark. i have dealt with this pain by sleeping with other women and one of them after being romantic with her told me that she was married just the week before which stopped my heart for just a little while. so thats my advice to anyone about to get laid ask if there married because i would like to think that ill be faithful to my wife but i dont know anymore