This Is What A Woman Sees When She Logs Into Her Online Dating Inbox
Jul 22nd, 2008 by Ugg
A good friend of mine likes online dating because she is busy, seems to have figured out that men at bars aren’t shopping for personality, and likely because she can easily center the universe around herself.
I’m being overly sarcastic, but the truth is that for many women, online dating, webcams, or attention-whoring on message boards, is a great way to feed your ego. You can choose to put your best angles up, choose your best photo, say absolutely nothing at all of substance, and still be guaranteed massive results.
While the same can almost be said for men, the aforementioned offers one thing a man won’t find without working on his online dating profile: Results.
Additionally, these pictures prove that many men lack any sort of “online game”. There are a few things to message a girl with that will help get responses, but they’re not “Hi”, “Hey”, or an empty subject line.
Some guys will get by on looks alone and some guys just get plain lucky. For those more serious about the game, there are PUA or “Pick Up Artist” tactics that seem to get better results. Although it takes a lot of time to learn and if you still look like a giant douche, you will probably just make yourself look like a slightly more annoying Turtle from Entourage.
But on the to the meat of things. When talking about online dating, my friend sent me these 5 pictures of her inbox. This was after less than 4 days on the site she joined.
Guys.. The next time you send a message to someone on an online dating site.. Look at these pics and think twice about what you’re saying. While I’m not a woman, I have to say the subject that looks like it has the best chances of being picked is the one labeled, “xbox kicks wii’s ass”.
Oh, and for the love of God, gifts and “online roses” on the first contact… Little bit creepy.
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Screen #5
Without getting gimmicky, the best and easiest way to get a good response (or a shot at one), still seems to be picking some info from her profile and seeing if you can tie it into your subject line.
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Having used online dating sites in the past myself, I think it’s also important that guys READ THE PROFILE.
Nothing is worse than reading a msg from someone who either contradicts what you said in your profile or asks a question that was answered in your profile. Women don’t spend all that time writing about themselves for you to ignore it and send a msg entirely based on our pictures. Silly men….
I’m jason and i would like to put my storie in this about cheating. A few years ago when i was a jr in college i had a girlfriend julie for 3 years then and it it was the end of finals week so me and my roomate whent to a party and there i met brittany and we would eventually sleep together and started dating the next week while still with julie. So i went back home and told her and i had told my friend this (alex) who told julie now i was pissed becuase he broke my trust. i officially broke up with julie and dated brittany and she left for her hometown. It was that weekend that i went to another party with my friends and cheated on britnay with lauren who was dating my friend at the time. The next day lauren called her bf (who she has no buisnessed dating anyway) and he came over that night and bitched her out i stayed out the way. so i told britany that i had cheaterd on her5 and she broe the relationship right there. Just last december me and julie got back together and in janurary i got sick. i tried to call and text her but to no avail and me, julie, and alex whom she calls her “best friend at the time’ were supposed to hang out but i was sick so he went over to her place and i thought nothing of it cuz we were good friends then. I then found out that he stayed the night at julies place and i was really pissed then. i did not know what to believe anymore and how long were they doing this. So thats were im left hanging and have broken ties with alex but for some reason i will still respond to julie when she texts or emails me every 4-6 months. half of me still loves her and the other half wants to tie a 500lb lead weight to her ankles and throw the weight over the boat and send 5000 feet below. but i cant find a connectoin with other women like i had with julie. it has me pretty confused and left to wait in the dark. i have dealt with this pain by sleeping with other women and one of them after being romantic with her told me that she was married just the week before which stopped my heart for just a little while. so thats my advice to anyone about to get laid ask if there married because i would like to think that ill be faithful to my wife but i dont know anymore
The fuck? You’re an asshole, and Julie deserves better than you. You’re just some scum cheater. You have feelings for her? Great, should’ve thought that over before you CHEATED on her. That feeling you have, like you want to kill her? Imagine how SHE felt. Asshole. The only time cheating is negligible is DRUNK. ONCE. After that, learn your lesson and sober up.
and incredibly self centered superficial with nothing much to give, past your looks women!!!