That massage technique is golden.

Not that he’s full of great advice or that women don’t like to hear you talk - but if you’re leading this, it’s best if you can do damage control on something someone else says. If you mess up, there may not be anyone present to try and explain what you meant

Share another woman with you = you are special

Share you with someone else = you are disposable

You want a real 3-some? Find a girl who wants an open relationship. It’s easy. Find a girl who has a habit of cheating on guys. Get into an open relationship with her.. then bring in another bi girl. Don’t get pissed if they lez out and leave you hanging though.

You’ll notice the second sentence of the first line item is:

Ensure that monogamy and commitment haven’t yet entered your vocabularies.

At best for your purposes, it’s a social networking site. It contains no built-in functionality for matching anyone with anyone else for dating of any kind.

Try Google for some places in your area

If it was your first time, this guy had no business asking you to have a threesome anyway!

Aw well, I guess a lot of us wish the first time was better…

Of course, it is full of tools, so it all comes around in the end.

Back to the article, at what point do you explain you need to drizzle man frosting on their faces to make it a sucsessful 3some?

1. in agreement with Nemisis: I have a fuck buddy (for lack of a better term).

We are casual in our accuantence. We don’t really call each other often or just ‘hang out’ but, when we do run into each other in the bars, we might end up going home and shagging. No commitment and safe sex of course. She likes to do 3 ways with another girl (not another guy; we tried once with another fuck buddy, she didn’t like it). If I’m out with a girl and she sees us, she will come over to say hi. At some point, my buddywill lean in and ask if the other girl is ‘game’. We’ve made something happen about 3 or 4 times and in each instance she’s all over the other girl. (This is over the course of several years by the way….not every other weekend). And we have had more than a few ‘no’ responses.

My ‘buddy’ is definitely bi as, without getting into too much detail, she requires both sets of moving parts to achieve liftoff. But, she doesn’t get to make this type of encounter happen too often so she’s a bit voracious with the women. The women who have agreed are often ‘curious’ and feel more comfortable with another woman than an additional guy. But, my buddy definitely brings them into to more than I do. The minute we get to my flat or her flat, she’s trying to get the other women to make out or undress. I’ve had to slow her down a few times. “Hey, get the Bacarach on and pour a few glasses. Geez.”

I live in a major city (in Asia) with lots of travellers so encounters seem to be easier to make happen. People tend to be more adventurous.

2. In agreement with ‘jimbo’: I have hired 2 or 3 women (in a country where it’s legal) as well. I don’t want to discuss the moral quagmire of prostitution. This is about 3 ways. The women were nice, we took a few hours and a few drinks to discuss the dynamics beforehand and the sex was safe (as it should always be regardless). Unfortunately this is harder to accomplish for women (not a lot of duce bigelows out there).