Wow, just wow. For every good woman out there, there seems to be a Sarah. Ever wonder why men are scared of marriage? A UK publication, The Daily Mail, covered a story of a cheating wife that goes above and beyond even the worst most of us have heard. We’ve all heard tales of cheating wives and stories about wives cheating on their husbands, but a case this severe is highly unusual to say the least.

The Story Of This Cheating Affair

Charles was happy to be a father to two children by his wife. Then she presented him with a third…and a fourth…a fifth and sixth. But when she fell pregnant a seventh time he KNEW the baby couldn’t be his. So how many were?

The couple already had two children together and went on to have four more, sharing what seemed a blessed life on a rambling property in the West Country. He had always, he says, taken immense pride in his role as a loving father.

But when Sarah fell pregnant for the seventh time five years ago, his life imploded.

Charles knew with devastating certainty that he could not be the father - for by then the couple had not had a sexual relationship for some months.

After a bitter confrontation, his wife confessed that the pregnancy was the result of a one-night stand. Terrible enough after a long marriage, you may think. But worse was to come.

Last year, DNA tests ordered by his wife revealed that Charles was not the father of his four youngest children either.

They were the product of a secret 14-year affair his wife had been conducting with local businessman Richard Mills - the same man who had fathered her seventh child.

Sarah, 49, had known all along, but callously allowed her husband to believe they were his.

The discovery has sent shockwaves through the heart of the family.

The two eldest, Alison, now 26, and 24-year-old Charles junior, have left home.

But the four younger children who Charles also thought were his - now aged 12, ten, nine and six - live with their mother in the former

Charles, meanwhile, has been forced to move out, and is facing his 70th birthday with only with his memories for company.

The Cheating Wife’s Point Of View

“I made a deliberate decision to have children by my lover and I would do it again if I had to”

“As far as I’m concerned I was trying to do the right thing by the family by keeping us all together.”

“If I was a selfish woman I would have left years ago, but I felt it was better for all the children to try to maintain status quo - not that it wasn’t terribly hard at times. But I have always tried to put their best interests first.”

“He did provide for us, yes, but what he didn’t give me was any fun, or affection, or real attention. He never wanted to go out and do anything.”

“Richard had two young children and so did I. We enjoyed the excitement and lust and although there were deeper feelings, too, we made a point of not discussing them.”

“What was the point? We were committed to our respective domestic situations. Much as I would have liked to get out, I didn’t envisage leaving Charles because I didn’t want to upset the kids.”

“I was very broody and wanted Richard’s baby.”

“He said it wasn’t sensible but I went for it anyway. I instinctively knew that he would be fine with it and I was so desperate to have his child that I was prepared to take the risk.”

“To be honest, Charles didn’t even come into it. I remember thinking I had to do something for my own happiness.”

“I don’t deny it was calculating.”

“In a funny way everyone was happy. Charles and I had discussed the idea of having more children.”

The Cheated Husband’s Point Of View

“Sarah started pestering me for sex after a long period of little physical contact.”

“I remember thinking she was trying to be a loving wife, but now I realise she was covering her tracks because she knew she was pregnant by someone else - for the first time.”

“Richard is beneath my contempt, but it’s Sarah I really blame, I now know she used me to raise her children.”

“If she’d had the courage to tell me the truth at the start, I could have had a chance of rebuilding my life. Instead, she chose to continue her deception over the years.”

“I gave her a home, children and a decent standard of life, and this is how she repaid me. The only way I can deal with it is to tell myself she’s ill.”

“We had the typical family life — the children, dogs, a cat.”

“Sarah stayed at home while I got a job working as a council manager. We were happy.”

“People ask me now if I had any idea what was going on but it’s so easy to miss the signs, all the children took after their mother, so I never I suspected a thing - why would I?”

“Life was busy, I had a full-time job and a house full of kids. I wouldn’t say Sarah and I had an amazing relationship but it wasn’t bad, and I was perfectly content.”

“She said she’d had sex with me while I was asleep - it was rubbish. I felt completely numb.”

“I pressed her to tell me who the father was, but she refused. I didn’t know what to do - I didn’t want to abandon my kids but it was also obvious the marriage was at an end.”

“She claimed it was a one-night stand and that the father didn’t want to know.”

“Later I got an anonymous phone call telling me it was a man called Richard Mills. But Sarah did not react when I confronted her with the name.”

“Then, when the baby girl was born in 2002, I didn’t think I would want anything to do with her, but she was such a lovely little thing. I decided that if Sarah would let me, I would bring her up as one of ours.”

“As far as I was concerned she had no contact with the baby’s father and there was a chance we could have a fresh start.”

What Does The World Think Of Sarah’s Scandal?

It’s no surprise the readers of this story have been shocked and outraged. A woman using a man for his money and stability to raise kids that weren’t his. A man who happily supported his family despite his wife’s lies who now is alone with nothing. Not even his house. The other man now lives there with the woman who used to be HIS wife.

DNA paternity tests should be required at issuing of birth certificate

According to DNA testing, between 15-30%, depending on which statistics you look at, of birth certificates identify the wrong man as the father of a child. Now you guys talk about feminism all you want, but in their basic nature, women are sluts. Their instinct to have children, to seek out the best sperm for them, and to blank out any moral or ethical considerations that’d stand in the way of it is paramount over any notion of loyalty to a husband or matrimonial contract.

I was watching “Maury” (yeah once, don’t shoot me) and he had a woman who had paternity tests on his show TEN TIMES and she still hasn’t found the father of her child. From what I have learned, his show’s favorite subject are these paternity tests…

Men should have the right to sue and recover for emotional distress from women like this.

No, we as a community should have the right to stone her to death. It’s stories like this that make me think some of the old testament stuff was right on the money.

I don’t even have words for something like this. Horribly selfish woman.

I can’t imagine how the kids will turn out. Especially the younger ones. Or that 12 year old.

That is horrible for the kids…what a selfish woman.

Now they are all old enough to be severly traumatized and remember it.

Man, I am getting prepaird to propose to my girlfriend soon. After reading this, it just gave me a sick feeling to my stomach. All people are different but just too imagine that someone is capable of doing this is just horrible…. ugh…

He should sue the lover for all the time and money he has spent and lost. To say this women is a disgrace is an understatement and says a lot for this man’s self control and love. She should have got nothing.

This story made me feel sick, the guy is a bit of a soft touch, but he doesn’t deserve this. How can she get anything? She should be kicked out and made to pay back every penny he spent on these kids and her over the years. The law is insane, the real father should be made to pay all the money he should have paid over the years as well.

I dread to think how many women have done similar or worst things to their husbands or children. Also how many men have died not knowing they have raise others’ offsprings with great affection and love as well as leaving the family’s fortune to them. What this woman has done amounts to life long mental cruelty to her husband and her children? It is much worst than serious physical assault.

It is the height of injustice that she should be entitled to any share of the marital home. She deserves to rot in hell together with her lover and I am speaking as a married man with a grown up son. No wonder people coming from countries with much stricter moral code treat the institution of marriage in this country with contempt! I can certainly understand now why homicides are committed in certain mitigated circumstances.

How ironic that even though the ‘wife’ is clearly the one in the wrong its the husband who has to financially support offspring that are not his. Also to add insult to injury he is the one who has to leave the ‘marital home’. This woman is clearly cold and calculating to use her husband in this way, god only knows the emotional damage this may cause in future years for the children.

This story is the tip of an enormous iceberg. Some surveys indicate that up to 30% of couples are actually in a similar situation and the husband has no idea. I would suggest all men get a DNA test on ‘their’ children. Many men have thought this could not possibly happen to them.

How sad that this woman, through her own weak character, has made a complete mess of so many lives; When all it needed at the beginning was for her to show a little strength of character by discussing with her husband whatever problems she thought she had by finding her enjoyment elsewhere.

What an awful deceitful woman she is. It pays to remember, your sins will always find you out…

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