Ugg,

Why do women like to be treated like crap? Why do women always love the assholes and never the nice guys?

Simple, to the point, but a question with more depth than most. Women enjoy sex as much as men do, just not necessarily as often as men do. Not really by design, it’s just that men are easier to stimulate than women and as a result, men are ready to go much more often.

Let’s take a look at a related video:

The reason women go for men like The Jerk is because they get attention almost all day. Men don’t truly get this because most men don’t get ogled all day long as women do. Even the most unattractive women can still be lusted after if she’s got a decent body. Moreover, with the help of a slightly aggressive wardrobe, women can go from fugly to decent in no time.

As a result, women are put on a pedastool because the supply of what they offer (sex) is lower than the demand for what they offer. Guys end up worshiping women and as a result lower their own social value to the women they’re fawning over.

Women enjoy the power of their sex. However, they all want a strong man who’s frame supports being lusted after as well. Women want the attention and in fact often even NEED it, but when it comes to who they choose, they don’t want a slave, they want an equal. Someone who can look them on equal terms and say “No” from time to time. Not even wanting her adds more points to his hotness factor.

There’s a lot more to this, but the key is that women don’t necessarily love being treated like dirt. They just love the type of guy that tends to treat women like crap. You can stay a nice guy, but watch the man the woman is falling for if you truly want some insight. The little things he does or doesn’t do can be added to your arsenal for later.

Remember, when watching TV you don’t remember the boring commercials you saw. You’ve become desensitized to them as women have become desensitized to men who do nice things for them. Instead, you remember that HEAD ON commercial or some other super annoying commercial.

You see, what you need to do is break apart from the pack to gain recognition. Buying a girl a drink, saying she looks nice, telling her how pretty or cool she is… guys do that all day long trying to earn her favor. It’s when you can SAFELY (go overboard and you’re in creep territory) break that complacency she has with men that you make yourself memorable. Don’t call her cool, call her a brat. Don’t tell her she’s pretty, tell her that when she smiles her chin wrinkles and that you think it’s cute.

The key is to realize what a woman hears all day long… And then to NOT do that.

Tags: women, men, jerk, sex, girlfriend, boyfriend, nice, guy, family, guy, head, on