Comments on: Who Cheats More? Do Women Cheat More Than Men? Or Do Men Cheat More Than Women?

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Sat, 17 Mar 2007 07:30:23 +0000

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By: skm0607

skm0607 — Mon, 19 Mar 2007 16:59:43 +0000

I think it’s safe to say i relate to absolutly everything on this site. Especially this article. Bravo!

By: Ugg

Ugg — Mon, 19 Mar 2007 17:34:41 +0000

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By: FI

FI — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 22:26:57 +0000

A man and woman both with good morals marry.

If the woman treats the man with respect, and if she takes care of herself enough so that she continues to be interested in having sex with him, the man will almost never cheat.

If the man treats the woman well… even if he treats her extra well, she will begin to get bored and begin to notice every flaw that her husband has. She will wonder how her life would be different with someone else. If she is with a man who does not try to control her, she will wish he was more dominating. If she is with a dominating man she will wish he was more sophisticated. If she is with a man so wealthy that he has never had to work, she will wish he was a self-made working man. The odds of her cheating, or at least losing interest in her husband, are at least 90%.

Don’t believe me? Open your eyes and look at just about every married couple. There are a few exceptions, but the vast majority fit this description.

By: Somebodey

Somebodey — Sat, 07 Feb 2009 05:22:19 +0000

I actually agree with the above statement. It makes sence. Maybe thats why everybodey who seems so “whorish” is always “happy” with who they are with.
Sucks for me though, i have to learn to be more of a jerk.

By: tom druppel

tom druppel — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 05:05:05 +0000

if your wife cheated than she pays you alimony. thats it!

By: Gary

Gary — Mon, 30 Mar 2009 15:57:25 +0000

I spent 4 years with a girl. Everything seemed great we had even spoke of getting married. I was then deployed to Iraq for the course of 6 months. In that time she began sleeping with another guy. Upon my return I discovered the truth when I caught her on the phone with the guy. Of course I asked her for the truth and she chose to lie to me so when I took her cell phone and made a call to the guy she decided to come clean or so it seemed. Even her confession was just another lie. All in all the one thing I can say about all of this is you can never truly know anyone or where there heart is. You can invest all your trust in someone but that doesn’t mean they can be trusted. There for guard your heart but do so with compassion

By: Hamid Mushtaq

Hamid Mushtaq — Wed, 27 May 2009 00:04:33 +0000

I think this study is a fraud. I don’t believe in it, because it is interest of durex to promote sex and by exaggerating facts, they are inticing people to indulge more hence increasing their profits.

By: anonymous

anonymous — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 20:01:17 +0000

I don’t believe this. I think men cheat far more than women because of my person experiences. Everyone who has ever cheated in my life (either on me or someone else) was a guy. Honestly, a poll on a condom website? Have none of you thought that people LIE on the internet! I would have been more likely to believe it if it was a random 100 person on the street question.
It’s obvious that most of you are men. No doubt about that. But, me as a women, I hate cheaters with a passion and if I ever cheated I wouldn’t be able to live with myself. I believe men like to look at women, young hot women, and cheat far more than women, because of animal instinct. Sorry men, but you know, deep down you know, its true.

By: Rhonda

Rhonda — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 17:58:24 +0000

I’ve seen so many post on here that say most women are cheating whores. But, from what I’ve seen in society men are whores before thier even men (were talking middle school years). Hence the reason thier are so many locker room bets from boys about who they can sleep with today. Also what about the young boys laying on the ground or using a mirror trying to see up a girls dress. That’s not only slutty but perverted. So from a young age boys are perverted whores. Let me not get started on all the Rapist. And most marriages end because of the males infedility. Doesn’t anyone watch Oprah? Or dr. Phil for that matter.

By: jon

jon — Fri, 17 Jul 2009 13:04:29 +0000

Women actually cheat a good bit more than men. But the survey has to be done correctly to gather accurate data. The problem is most surveys simply ask if the person has cheated. Well women define cheating differently. If a man doesn’t provide her enough money, or she thinks he works too much to try and provide that money, or he’s not emotionally available, losing interest in bed, then she’ll cheat but blame him for her cheating in her head. So she convinces herself she’s right and she’s allowed to cheat because it’s his fault.

Another interesting stat from my social psychology class was that 25% of americans think their father is someone it’s really not. In 85% of those cases the father also doesn’t realize it’s not his child.

These statistics are only true in america. Women in other countries do have better attitudes and moral values, so don’t associate American women will all women.

By: jon

jon — Fri, 17 Jul 2009 13:09:36 +0000

You shouldn’t generalize based on what you see on TV. Daytime television’s main audience is middle aged non-working women. The statistics facts actually show that 50% of divorces are a result of women cheating. And women do actually cheat more than men. See my other post for an explanation. Always keep in mind these stats and even all these opinions are based on American behavior because I’ve been involved in comparitive studies with other countries and women there are vastly more moral and have better attitudes.

By: amanda

amanda — Mon, 10 Aug 2009 12:12:11 +0000

i have been in a long relationship and i have liked alot of men since we started dating.I dont see anything wrong as long as you dont touch but nowadays people have way more chances to cheat.people were cheating in the old days alot its just that no one found out or cared as much.back then the main thing was getting food to put on the table for the kids.nothing like this mattered.

By: Jose Cuadrado

Jose Cuadrado — Mon, 24 Aug 2009 06:12:59 +0000

It takes men much longer to fall in love while a woman can fall in love within a blink of an eye…Now when a man finally falls in love, he is in it for good and he wont leave her..ever.
A woman has the ability to transfer all the love she has for one person to another and fall in love with this new person with the same emotions as she had for the first.

It seems almost like a sick joke as if men were not meant for women.

Love is like Alcoholism. It’s great when you start, then you start to feel sick, then you have a horrible hangover and swear you will never drink again.

Then…you drink again.

By: Daron

Daron — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 11:40:30 +0000

I strongly agree with the above comment. Most men do not cheat on their wives (when they are in love with them). It does take men a longer time to fall in love with someone. However, this is not always the case. It’s true though, that women fall in love at the blink of an eye. Women are also wishy, washy as to their feelings. Men when they actually do start to “have” feelings for a woman, they feel really vulnerable. Most men are helpless to fighting off having feelings for a girl. Mind you, women are our mothers and sisters. I will also have to say that generally white women have looser morals, and most cheating of the women is done by them statistically. What have you, women do have their own personal system of morals, which I would say vary from person to person. Do they lie more? Generally so, but so commonly and so blended in that it would not really matter. Do men lie as well? Of course, but it is much less looked down upon. Does having a good moral base help a man? Not as much. But men could cheat if they wanted to, but they want someone to be honest to and someone to trust and care for. Someone to be with them because they want to be, not because they want them to be. That end then end is what men want. Women on the other hand want it all, selfishly. There are however some men that they care about, who they would not cheat on. It’s inevitable. Women are not as bad as they’re made out to be, but one should also consider the situation at hand and the initial preliminary redflags when engaging a woman. Those two P’s the Past and the Present will always be most relevant. The future is a nightmare.

By: K

Mon, 26 Oct 2009 15:34:27 +0000

“One thing I have learned over the years is that women never let go of one dick before they have a firm grip on another. Chances are if she ends it, she’s been cheating on you.”

This is very true in my experiences. While it wasn’t me that was cheated on, I saw it happen several times. When I was a child, my mother went through six husbands before being with one for over 10 years now, and now he’s leaving her because she confessed to cheating on him with over four different guys, one of whom is her husband’s uncle! I asked her why she cheated and she tried justifying herself with “I felt ignored and the other guys gave me the attention I needed.” I came back with “So if you weren’t being satisfied, why didn’t you just leave?” I never got an answer to that question.

But in all the times I saw her cheating, she never did leave a guy until she had the other one wrapped around her finger. The issue with this is that the guy she’s trying to get now is married to a very attractive woman that makes over 70K a year. My mother works for the local school district making less than I do. I’m working at my first job as a private nurse and I have no experience. I’ll just leave it at this; I make less than 30K a year and she makes less than I do. Do you REALLY think that guy is going to leave his wife for my whore of a mother?

She doesn’t think that her current husband is actually going to leave because it’s been a month now since he said he was but she doesn’t know what’s going on behind the scenes like I do. He’s just saving money and biding his time until he finds a new and nicer place to live. He told me he’ll be leaving in next month. And while I never got along with him when I was a kid, I’ll be on his side for the legal shit when he takes my little brother and sister from my mom.

Just a warning to all guys out there: If she’s cheated before, what’s to say she won’t do it again? And if she cheated WITH you, be prepared for her to cheat ON you!

By: K

Mon, 26 Oct 2009 15:44:00 +0000

Huh? You lost me so many times in that. . .that. . . Paragraph? Perhaps you should learn how to properly construct a paragraph and sentence? It would be greatly appreciated by all readers. I’m certain about that.

By: yourundoing

yourundoing — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 09:18:41 +0000

first of all if you want to be sexist then just go somewhere else.
second, if were talking about personal experiences then mine would COMPLETELY contradict yours seeing as how i have only known one of my friends to ever cheat WITH a girl on another guy. but pretty much all my friends have been cheated on by their gf’s, even though they treated them like no other and did not in any way deserve it.