Comments on: The Top 8 Reasons Why Men Cheat On The Women They’re With

By: stephnaie

stephnaie — Wed, 14 Dec 2011 22:29:08 +0000

you know i just found out 13 days ago my husband had an affair and still he cant tell me why but i will tell you that i for one even after 16 years of marriage has ever cheated on him i believe in gods words and the words of matromony i just wished men in general to inti consideration of the the morals in the sistuation

By: max

max — Mon, 29 Aug 2011 22:19:31 +0000

My boyfriend said he was so drunk he never knew wot he was doing, & say’s he never actually done it just tried to! I have 2 little babies 2 & 1 year old and have chucked him out and let him back many times since even if I wanted to try again there’s a mental emotional block now and I just can’t he say’s I’m selfish cos of our children and not fare on them. I’m really torn now because I do feel guilty to them for taking there dad out there life, but I will never trust him againm now and my feelings towards him have almost died , all I can do is critisize him and argue with him. Anyone know what I shoould do? This was 7 months ago in feb, & I found out on the night he done it which was feb 13th of all nights by looking at his calls made on itemised billing from mobile 1st girl denied knowing anything about it then she said it was him ringing and textin her. Infact he made 12 calls in 5hours to this girl.

By: mama maya

mama maya — Mon, 25 Jul 2011 15:44:24 +0000

i hav been cheated on and its hurts so deep especially becoz i was honest and committed so,, i really lost hope and trust in him, period, the rest is to try and pretend all along for the sake of my child, as i dont want my child be be brought up my me alone or with him and another harlot,not sure how this will work but am hardened inside like crazy, just knowing that a man you call your husband doesnt really think through the consequences is of his actions is VERY SCARY for any sensible women in this world..Unless your life is unstable already so you care not about faithfullness..And……..i feel one would talk from a different voice and perspective if they were affected, now you can open your mouth so wide and talk…I only acting sane coz I believe in God too

By: Bitchesplz

Bitchesplz — Fri, 06 Aug 2010 00:39:29 +0000

Stop taking this from a religious perspective and wake up and smell the coffee maintance is essential. God who? O wait you mean the fairytale your mom rocked you to sleep with…..Go to school read and enlighten yourself. Human nature/ The human race….we are all imperfect….deal with it

By: QueenQuanda

QueenQuanda — Sun, 22 Feb 2009 20:25:11 +0000

If men knew the magintude of pain they cause women when they cheat, they would never even think about doing such a thing. It hurts deeply. It destroys the soul and kills the spirit. The bad thing is that most women blame themselves. They wonder what they did to drive him to cheat, and do not realize that it’s really not their fault. Men are just greedy and think they will get away with it. They want more, and more, and more. Then when they get the “more” they now have a disease which is transmitted to you, and now who is really the winner here? No one is the winner. You both now have a death sentence due to HIS stupidity. Has this now become the definition of “love”? It would have been better if he would have communicated with you before he stepped out. Whether if it was to try to make the relationship better so that cheating would not occur, or to break things off with you first instead of just right out cheating. When are people going to for once think about the other person’s feelings? If it took the goodness in you not to cheat on him, it should have taken the “goodness” in him not to cheat on you. Why are men so weak? What ever happened to the strong family-oriented man? The godly man? The man who respects and loves his woman the way God intended?

By: jenm

jenm — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:13:55 +0000

WHAT THE HELL? “women seperate sex from love…”??? NO thats what men do that’s why they can feel good about screwing a large number of women cause they see it as an act and a booster of their ego. NOT seperating sex from love is the reason a lot of women get hurt and refuse to have threesomes with their men! Woman are more emotionally attached and men are more physically attached. Women are afraid of losing a man to him loving someone else, and men are afraid of losing women to a man who’s better in bed ( said by my husband himself! )

By: Rebekah

Rebekah — Thu, 23 Aug 2007 17:58:17 +0000

Very informative. I’ve always wanted to know why guys (people) cheat. I never felt that I could just straight out ask a cheater why they cheated.