Comments on: My Wife Is Cheating On Me… Four True Stories Of Cheating Wives http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/ AskUgg.com discusses Cheating, Relationships, Dating, Sex, Intimacy, Infidelity, and more! Sat, 31 Jul 2010 20:31:17 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.2 By: AskUgg! - Cheating, Relationships, Dating, Sex, Intimacy, Infidelity, It’s all here! » Blog Archive » I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me: Why Men Are Never Published In Dear Abby http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-27 AskUgg! - Cheating, Relationships, Dating, Sex, Intimacy, Infidelity, It’s all here! » Blog Archive » I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me: Why Men Are Never Published In Dear Abby Thu, 15 Mar 2007 18:03:28 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-27 [...] is a pretty accurate portrayal of a man in a relationship. We often read stories of women cheating because they are lonely or feel neglected. After all, it is the man’s role to make the money [...] […] is a pretty accurate portrayal of a man in a relationship. We often read stories of women cheating because they are lonely or feel neglected. After all, it is the man’s role to make the money […]

]]> By: peter http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-29 peter Thu, 15 Mar 2007 20:27:16 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-29 The problem with all of these is that none of these victims have the self-esteem and strength to remove themselves from the person completely, either as punishment or permanently. This serves two purposes- Without an emotional support, an affair quickly takes on a desperation aspect that will likely cause it to collapse. Also, the person is taught that they cannot enjoy the full support of more than 1 person without hurting someone else. The problem with all of these is that none of these victims have the self-esteem and strength to remove themselves from the person completely, either as punishment or permanently. This serves two purposes- Without an emotional support, an affair quickly takes on a desperation aspect that will likely cause it to collapse. Also, the person is taught that they cannot enjoy the full support of more than 1 person without hurting someone else.

]]> By: Jesse http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-47 Jesse Fri, 16 Mar 2007 04:38:52 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-47 I don't necessarily believe that once you're a cheater, you're always a cheater. I myself am guilty of infidelity to my last girlfriend. she stayed with me however for another 10 months (we had been going out for about 2 months when she found out), and I cut all contact with the other girl. I still wasn't completely faithful to her throughout the entire relationship, though. I never intimately cheated on her again, but still. and when she dumped me... damn did that hurt. had me crying for a year. everything I did wrong, pretty much dictates what I know I will do in future relationships. still... what I wouldn't give just to talk to her... I don’t necessarily believe that once you’re a cheater, you’re always a cheater.

I myself am guilty of infidelity to my last girlfriend. she stayed with me however for another 10 months (we had been going out for about 2 months when she found out), and I cut all contact with the other girl. I still wasn’t completely faithful to her throughout the entire relationship, though. I never intimately cheated on her again, but still.

and when she dumped me… damn did that hurt. had me crying for a year. everything I did wrong, pretty much dictates what I know I will do in future relationships. still… what I wouldn’t give just to talk to her…

]]> By: I Lied To And Cheated On My Husband For 14 Years So He Could Provide For Me - 5 Of Our 7 Children Were NOT His And Now I’m Leaving Him For The Other Man | AskUgg! | Cheating, Relationships, Dating, Sex, Intimacy, Infidelity, It’s all here! http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-148 I Lied To And Cheated On My Husband For 14 Years So He Could Provide For Me - 5 Of Our 7 Children Were NOT His And Now I’m Leaving Him For The Other Man | AskUgg! | Cheating, Relationships, Dating, Sex, Intimacy, Infidelity, It’s all here! Thu, 05 Apr 2007 17:17:31 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-148 [...] wife that goes above and beyond even the worst most of us have heard. We’ve all heard tales of cheating wives and stories about wives cheating on their husbands, but a case this severe is highly unusual to say the [...] […] wife that goes above and beyond even the worst most of us have heard. We’ve all heard tales of cheating wives and stories about wives cheating on their husbands, but a case this severe is highly unusual to say the […]

]]> By: Even Religious Leaders Believe The High US Divorce Rate Is Related To The Amount Of Sex! | AskUgg! | Cheating, Relationships, Dating, Sex, Intimacy, Infidelity, It’s all here! http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-5407 Even Religious Leaders Believe The High US Divorce Rate Is Related To The Amount Of Sex! | AskUgg! | Cheating, Relationships, Dating, Sex, Intimacy, Infidelity, It’s all here! Tue, 19 Feb 2008 19:35:11 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-5407 [...] this blog does one thing, it shows that people who aren’t getting “it” at home - go elsewhere. Whether you’re a man or a woman. Whether “it” is sexual or emotional. Getting [...] […] this blog does one thing, it shows that people who aren’t getting “it” at home - go elsewhere. Whether you’re a man or a woman. Whether “it” is sexual or emotional. Getting […]

]]> By: dirk http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-24376 dirk Tue, 03 Feb 2009 05:56:52 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-24376 Yeh I just found out my wife of 6 yrs and 18 yrs together cheated on me for the last 10 months and now she thinks she loves him............. Yeh I just found out my wife of 6 yrs and 18 yrs together cheated on me for the last 10 months and now she thinks she loves him………….

]]> By: mello... http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-24385 mello... Wed, 04 Feb 2009 10:34:30 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-24385 this is normal... move on.... find love in life not just one person. How anyone can stay after finding out is beyond me... that is a hurt that will not heal. this is normal… move on…. find love in life not just one person. How anyone can stay after finding out is beyond me… that is a hurt that will not heal.

]]> By: Bolu http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-26707 Bolu Fri, 08 May 2009 13:01:46 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-26707 I believe strongly that once a cheater, always a cheater. The internal drive will always be there. Suppress it, yeah, but only for a while and it shall rare its ugly head other conditions being ripe. Its just as the saying goes, 'a leopard can never take off its spots". Again i believe strongly in the laws of retributive justice (or karma if you like). If you truly have never cheated (or hurt someone emotionally so as to have the effect that cheating has on the cheated), then you really have nothing to fear from being cheated on. If however you feel stuck in a relationship where your spouse or bf or gf cheats, and you are unhappy and still attached, then that has go to be karmaic punishment. I'd say one of the worst there is. I believe strongly that once a cheater, always a cheater. The internal drive will always be there. Suppress it, yeah, but only for a while and it shall rare its ugly head other conditions being ripe. Its just as the saying goes,
‘a leopard can never take off its spots”. Again i believe strongly in the laws of retributive justice (or karma if you like). If you truly have never cheated (or hurt someone emotionally so as to have the effect that cheating has on the cheated), then you really have nothing to fear from being cheated on. If however you feel stuck in a relationship where your spouse or bf or gf cheats, and you are unhappy and still attached, then that has go to be karmaic punishment. I’d say one of the worst there is.

]]> By: Private Investigator http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-32270 Private Investigator Thu, 17 Dec 2009 12:00:10 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-32270 "Once a cheater, always a cheater?" Of course. That's why is very important to obtain the proof of cheating. If you dont't find the proof , you can hire a private investigator. “Once a cheater, always a cheater?” Of course. That’s why is very important to obtain the proof of cheating. If you dont’t find the proof , you can hire a private investigator.

]]> By: pete http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-34508 pete Sat, 17 Apr 2010 20:10:26 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/10/my-wife-is-cheating-on-me-four-true-stories-of-cheating-wives/#comment-34508 When someone cheats on you. Leave them. its not heartless. its not because ive been hurt. if you forgive someone it translates to it was ok. then she wonders what else she can get away with. sge will turn u into a tool. i love psychology. maybe one day we can figure out women and their ways. When someone cheats on you. Leave them. its not heartless. its not because ive been hurt. if you forgive someone it translates to it was ok. then she wonders what else she can get away with. sge will turn u into a tool. i love psychology. maybe one day we can figure out women and their ways.

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