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Conclusion: So What Does This All Mean?

The sad truth is that most guys really just want to get laid, keep their belly full, and occasionally have a woman to share some affection with. Men are physically stimulated and don’t really need emotional bonding to be ready to go. Very different from women who are emotionally stimulated and can usually get past the physical for good emotional stimulation.

If more men realized women are big girls and can handle honesty, whether they like it or not, you’d see a lot more #2’s and everyone would have a lot of fun. As a result, #2 may eventually find that “one” after lots of experience and as a result be much more stable and able to have a successful relationship as a result of having successful (friendly) relationships with women in the past. This guy wins because he kept the ratio of time spent thinking about women and what’s inside their pants exactly where he wanted giving him time to listen to them and learn about them without any ulterior motives because of the honesty upfront.

#1 and #3 tend to get women pregnant, and either run or stick around only for the kids. Leaving lots of single moms, strained relationships, or eventually both.

The sad truth is that NOT thinking only with our head “down there” is a lot like seeing someone drop $10,000 on the sidewalk. You know it would be wrong to take it. But common, it’s $10,000! If you don’t tell anyone and just keep it, you could do a lot with it and be happy.

Knowing that you’re getting with a girl under the wrong pretenses and going through with it, despite how wrong the timing or situation is (she’s in a committed relationship, you lied to her in order to get laid, etc.), is just like that. Nobody can really blame you for not turning down sex, but you know that you REALLY don’t want to get caught.

Ultimately men are afraid that since there is a lot competition out there for limited resources, that if they’re honest, they might lose it to someone else. Men need to put that whole idea of rejection out of their head and just be honest and confident. It’s attractive.

Introduction
Type Number One - The Jerk
Type Number Two - The Ambitious Man
Type Number Three - The Moron
Conclusion…

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