The Three Types of Men - Conclusion
Mar 9th, 2007 by Ugg
<< Note: This is part of an article series that begins here
Conclusion: So What Does This All Mean?
The sad truth is that most guys really just want to get laid, keep their belly full, and occasionally have a woman to share some affection with. Men are physically stimulated and don’t really need emotional bonding to be ready to go. Very different from women who are emotionally stimulated and can usually get past the physical for good emotional stimulation.
If more men realized women are big girls and can handle honesty, whether they like it or not, you’d see a lot more #2’s and everyone would have a lot of fun. As a result, #2 may eventually find that “one” after lots of experience and as a result be much more stable and able to have a successful relationship as a result of having successful (friendly) relationships with women in the past. This guy wins because he kept the ratio of time spent thinking about women and what’s inside their pants exactly where he wanted giving him time to listen to them and learn about them without any ulterior motives because of the honesty upfront.
#1 and #3 tend to get women pregnant, and either run or stick around only for the kids. Leaving lots of single moms, strained relationships, or eventually both.
The sad truth is that NOT thinking only with our head “down there” is a lot like seeing someone drop $10,000 on the sidewalk. You know it would be wrong to take it. But common, it’s $10,000! If you don’t tell anyone and just keep it, you could do a lot with it and be happy.
Knowing that you’re getting with a girl under the wrong pretenses and going through with it, despite how wrong the timing or situation is (she’s in a committed relationship, you lied to her in order to get laid, etc.), is just like that. Nobody can really blame you for not turning down sex, but you know that you REALLY don’t want to get caught.
Ultimately men are afraid that since there is a lot competition out there for limited resources, that if they’re honest, they might lose it to someone else. Men need to put that whole idea of rejection out of their head and just be honest and confident. It’s attractive.
Introduction
Type Number One - The Jerk
Type Number Two - The Ambitious Man
Type Number Three - The Moron
Conclusion…
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I recently got into a relationship with a Type 3 “friend” who’d been hanging around for a long time. I knew I was only falling for him because I was in a desperate situation. He was there for me, and I appreciated the attention and support. Now I realize it was just him wanting to get laid (whether he knew it or not).
Luckily, I’ve climbed out of my bad situation and broken things off, romantically. We remain friends, and I’ve come to trust him in a way. I now know that getting involved with a “lurker”, or anyone I’m not thoroughly into, is a mistake I will NEVER make again, because it took me so long to finally end things. I just didn’t want to be a heartless bitch.
Now, I really feel as though he’s still trying to hang around until I let my guard down again. As a friend I want to help him become more of a #2, but from the perspective of a romantic partner, I want him out of my life altogether. What should I do?
Teej,
I was once a “moron” and am now quite “Abmitious”. I think, based on my own experience, that he has to want it before it’ll happen. Once he wants it sufficiently, there are a few ways he can go about getting it. One thing I strongly recommend is the Alpha/Dominant Male Subliminal Training Set, which is a six volume program that has worked wonders for me and several of my friends. It takes six months to work through all six “stages”, but working through them, literally, consists of turning it on at night and letting it play on loop as you sleep. And best of all… it’s effectively silent! It’s on this page as a CD or download set:
http://www.ultrasonic-subliminals.com/of_interest_to_men
Also, have him read “How To Be An Alpha Male”.
http://www.amazon.com/How-Become-Alpha-Male-Successful/dp/1411636600
The two together are genuinely a killer combination, and I would have paid four or five times what I did to get the results I got from those two things. I genuinely cannot say I think I would have overcome my “moron” status without them.
Once he’s gotten those two things and is using them… leave him alone. He has to want it enough to do the rest. If he doesn’t… don’t worry about him. He’s a moron, after all.