Comments on: *CAUGHT!* - I’m Cheating On My Husband With My Best Friend While My Husband Is Deployed In Iraq… http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/ AskUgg.com discusses Cheating, Relationships, Dating, Sex, Intimacy, Infidelity, and more! Wed, 20 Aug 2008 23:02:21 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.2 By: It’s Beta » Blog Archive » *BUSTED* Random Surfer uses WhitePages.com, Yahoo, and MySpace to track down a woman and mother cheating on her husband stationed in Iraq, with her best friend. *PICS* http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-193 It’s Beta » Blog Archive » *BUSTED* Random Surfer uses WhitePages.com, Yahoo, and MySpace to track down a woman and mother cheating on her husband stationed in Iraq, with her best friend. *PICS* Wed, 11 Apr 2007 06:25:59 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-193 [...] [link][more] [via: reddit.com: newest submissions | article link] [...] […] [link][more] [via: reddit.com: newest submissions | article link] […]

]]> By: Burned http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-194 Burned Wed, 11 Apr 2007 06:56:11 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-194 This is a freakin classic, its been awhile since i did anything like that but it is freakin great, im tired of all the military whores especially, your old man is in a damn war, and you have the gull to fuck someone else while he is fighting... great post askugg, i'm going to highlight this post on my blog, it is a classic. This is a freakin classic, its been awhile since i did anything like that but it is freakin great, im tired of all the military whores especially, your old man is in a damn war, and you have the gull to fuck someone else while he is fighting…

great post askugg, i’m going to highlight this post on my blog, it is a classic.

]]> By: Burned By The Man » Blog Archive » Military whore caught busted by E-PI.. http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-195 Burned By The Man » Blog Archive » Military whore caught busted by E-PI.. Wed, 11 Apr 2007 07:00:28 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-195 [...] Read More [...] […] Read More […]

]]> By: Vic http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-209 Vic Wed, 11 Apr 2007 13:38:51 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-209 :eek3: :eek3:

]]> By: Ugg http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-213 Ugg Wed, 11 Apr 2007 15:07:43 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-213 Thanks! I'm big on these stories because I've read of soldiers coming home and finding their lives torn apart by cheating spouses. Often traumatized from war, the last thing they can handle is their life torn apart in front of them. Sometimes they resort to violence, sometimes suicide, but especially if there are children involved, the soldier needs to know about this before heading home to find a big surprise waiting for him or her. Thanks!

I’m big on these stories because I’ve read of soldiers coming home and finding their lives torn apart by cheating spouses. Often traumatized from war, the last thing they can handle is their life torn apart in front of them. Sometimes they resort to violence, sometimes suicide, but especially if there are children involved, the soldier needs to know about this before heading home to find a big surprise waiting for him or her.

]]> By: Ugg http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-214 Ugg Wed, 11 Apr 2007 15:14:43 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-214 :eek3: indeed... maybe even a little :noes: :o :eek3: indeed… maybe even a little :noes: :o

]]> By: redfox2 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-215 redfox2 Wed, 11 Apr 2007 17:43:30 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-215 nappy headed hos!!!!! nappy headed hos!!!!!

]]> By: gino http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-258 gino Tue, 17 Apr 2007 09:59:01 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-258 Well...I hope for her that the guy in Irak doesn't come bck too hungry...you don't want to mess with a marine or a G.I. with a post combat stress disorder....and usually the guys out there tend to be pretty tough....But he will have my approval if he kick the bastard "friend" till it bleed. God is disgusting how some people are respctless of our folks...I'd send this ind of people to die in Irak in the first place! **SUPPORT OUR TROOPS*** Bye. Well…I hope for her that the guy in Irak doesn’t come bck too hungry…you don’t want to mess with a marine or a G.I. with a post combat stress disorder….and usually the guys out there tend to be pretty tough….But he will have my approval if he kick the bastard “friend” till it bleed. God is disgusting how some people are respctless of our folks…I’d send this ind of people to die in Irak in the first place!
**SUPPORT OUR TROOPS***
Bye.

]]> By: Ugg http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-275 Ugg Tue, 17 Apr 2007 17:09:38 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-275 While I agree with what I believe you were TRYING to say... I'm sure our troops would appreciate you at least being able to properly spell the country they're in :) While I agree with what I believe you were TRYING to say… I’m sure our troops would appreciate you at least being able to properly spell the country they’re in :)

]]> By: My Boyfriend Visits Dating And Singles Sites - Is He Cheating On Me? | AskUgg! | Cheating, Relationships, Dating, Sex, Intimacy, Infidelity, It’s all here! http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-315 My Boyfriend Visits Dating And Singles Sites - Is He Cheating On Me? | AskUgg! | Cheating, Relationships, Dating, Sex, Intimacy, Infidelity, It’s all here! Wed, 18 Apr 2007 23:59:02 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-315 [...] that if nothing else, you’ve established that he was lying. Men and women often do this when “busted” because it ends the conversation and avoids the fact that you don’t really want an answer, [...] […] that if nothing else, you’ve established that he was lying. Men and women often do this when “busted” because it ends the conversation and avoids the fact that you don’t really want an answer, […]

]]> By: Kelly http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-460 Kelly Sun, 29 Apr 2007 09:19:22 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-460 I found this through a friend of mine - the funniest part of this is that yes, the actual girl that was cheating, WAS cheating - BUT - the girl whose profile she linked you to *originally*? OH SNAP - she was also cheating on her husband while he was deployed! (but denies it, though friends and the like saw her in public with this guy). What a sad, sad world. I found this through a friend of mine - the funniest part of this is that yes, the actual girl that was cheating, WAS cheating - BUT - the girl whose profile she linked you to *originally*? OH SNAP - she was also cheating on her husband while he was deployed! (but denies it, though friends and the like saw her in public with this guy).

What a sad, sad world.

]]> By: Crisi http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-1203 Crisi Wed, 20 Jun 2007 23:47:08 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-1203 ... This is very confusing, because that first myspace you linked to? Kyleia? She is not black. I know her in reallife, or I did many years ago. Now, I would not put it above her to cheat on a husband (I do know she married a military guy) but, I think you are dealing with two differnt Kyleias in there. … This is very confusing, because that first myspace you linked to? Kyleia? She is not black. I know her in reallife, or I did many years ago. Now, I would not put it above her to cheat on a husband (I do know she married a military guy) but, I think you are dealing with two differnt Kyleias in there.

]]> By: Loran http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-1359 Loran Wed, 04 Jul 2007 04:50:21 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-1359 I am a US Soldier and I have something to say. I appreciate that this story is being told, however. Is it fair that the wife in this situation is being treated so harshly? Alot of soldiers and alot of spouses are doing this sort of thing. I even had friends who promised their spouses that they wouldn't be angry if something like this happend during their time apart. It is war, it is stressful and it is a very sad reality. I am not saying that this is okay, and I hope that my spouse and I do not face this issue in our marriage however, it isn't a "new" occurance. It is my opinion that the spouses in these situations need friends who will support them and be there through their struggle to set things right in their marriage. People who will encourage them to find more respectable ways to deal with their emotions in the absence of their spouse. This girl is 23, she is young and she messed up pretty bad. Does that mean she hates her husband???? Really???? It's not like she is the first one to make a mistake that she has to live with for the rest of her life. Anyway, that is my opinion... This is a private matter between a SOLDIER and HIS spouse. I am a US Soldier and I have something to say. I appreciate that this story is being told, however. Is it fair that the wife in this situation is being treated so harshly? Alot of soldiers and alot of spouses are doing this sort of thing. I even had friends who promised their spouses that they wouldn’t be angry if something like this happend during their time apart. It is war, it is stressful and it is a very sad reality. I am not saying that this is okay, and I hope that my spouse and I do not face this issue in our marriage however, it isn’t a “new” occurance. It is my opinion that the spouses in these situations need friends who will support them and be there through their struggle to set things right in their marriage. People who will encourage them to find more respectable ways to deal with their emotions in the absence of their spouse. This girl is 23, she is young and she messed up pretty bad. Does that mean she hates her husband???? Really???? It’s not like she is the first one to make a mistake that she has to live with for the rest of her life.

Anyway, that is my opinion… This is a private matter between a SOLDIER and HIS spouse.

]]> By: Richard http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-1546 Richard Sat, 28 Jul 2007 23:34:05 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-1546 Here's a little of a reverse story for you people out there. I formerly served in the Marines, was out for awhile, met the girl of my dreams and got married, she wanted to go to college, so she joined the National Guard, unfortunately 911 took place and everyone was getting deployed, she was one of them. Gone for 9 months, emailing me, talking to me on the phone almost daily, "I love you so much, when i get back we have to start our family and bring a little one into the world" shit like this the entire time. Well, when she returned she was acting a bit off, i figured she needed adjustment, i gave her space, i needed that myself before. Things didn't get any better so i pressed her to find the issue, turns out the entire time she was deployed she was fucking her Mst Sgt, her supperior NCO. Then she said, "Sorry, but i'm leaving you, i'm in love with someone else" why thank you so much, for leading me on for so long, i wonder if any of those times she called me, and said how much she loved me, if she was sitting on her Mst Sgt. I have been trying to find a wall of shame to poster her picture and info, but haven't had any luck. Here’s a little of a reverse story for you people out there. I formerly served in the Marines, was out for awhile, met the girl of my dreams and got married, she wanted to go to college, so she joined the National Guard, unfortunately 911 took place and everyone was getting deployed, she was one of them. Gone for 9 months, emailing me, talking to me on the phone almost daily, “I love you so much, when i get back we have to start our family and bring a little one into the world” shit like this the entire time. Well, when she returned she was acting a bit off, i figured she needed adjustment, i gave her space, i needed that myself before. Things didn’t get any better so i pressed her to find the issue, turns out the entire time she was deployed she was fucking her Mst Sgt, her supperior NCO. Then she said, “Sorry, but i’m leaving you, i’m in love with someone else” why thank you so much, for leading me on for so long, i wonder if any of those times she called me, and said how much she loved me, if she was sitting on her Mst Sgt. I have been trying to find a wall of shame to poster her picture and info, but haven’t had any luck.

]]> By: Ugg http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-1554 Ugg Sun, 29 Jul 2007 19:11:39 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-1554 Wow Richard, I can't imagine that was a welcome surprise. Thanks for the story and remember.. at least you didn't end up raising a child that wasn't yours. That's happened to other men in stories in the 'Cheating Lovers' section! Wow Richard, I can’t imagine that was a welcome surprise. Thanks for the story and remember.. at least you didn’t end up raising a child that wasn’t yours. That’s happened to other men in stories in the ‘Cheating Lovers’ section!

]]> By: RG http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-1573 RG Tue, 31 Jul 2007 13:18:25 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-1573 I am prior service Army, and just like Richard's story tells you, it happens just as much with the deployed spouses overseas as it does with the ones left behind... which is fucked up because it's not easy for them to be at home without their spouses either, just because they're not the ones fighting. I'm dealing with a deployed spouse right now. He took leave to see our newborn son shortly after he got there and before he knew about the 3-month deployment extension so I have a solid year without him. But there is no way in hell, heaven, or earth that I will -EVER- cheat on him. It's just not right, but that's just me. Why the hell would someone get married if they weren't sure if that person is someone they want to spend the rest of their life with? I mean, it's different if you have an agreement with your spouse or whatever but if you're LYING to them and hiding shit from them you deserve to get slapped. And all these tricky people give military spouses like me a bad name.. But Loran is right, it is a matter between a soldier and his or her spouse.. I am prior service Army, and just like Richard’s story tells you, it happens just as much with the deployed spouses overseas as it does with the ones left behind… which is fucked up because it’s not easy for them to be at home without their spouses either, just because they’re not the ones fighting. I’m dealing with a deployed spouse right now. He took leave to see our newborn son shortly after he got there and before he knew about the 3-month deployment extension so I have a solid year without him. But there is no way in hell, heaven, or earth that I will -EVER- cheat on him. It’s just not right, but that’s just me. Why the hell would someone get married if they weren’t sure if that person is someone they want to spend the rest of their life with? I mean, it’s different if you have an agreement with your spouse or whatever but if you’re LYING to them and hiding shit from them you deserve to get slapped.

And all these tricky people give military spouses like me a bad name.. But Loran is right, it is a matter between a soldier and his or her spouse..

]]> By: TJ http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-1816 TJ Fri, 24 Aug 2007 19:51:17 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-1816 Wow Richard - You are just like me. I couldn't help but respond. I came across this thread while looking up punishment for adultery. My wife was deployed overseas from October 2005 through February of this year while I raised our 4 year old. I found a number of e-mails between two guys during her deployment. One was at one place and then she was transferred. This continued on with another fellow. This is absolutely disgusting. I don't know how we can expect other cultures to live by standards when we can't even live to them. I just assume that her and every other pig that participated in this behavior get what they deserve for this crap. The kicker of the story is that she ran off with the second of the two guys, but I assume that has not worked out, so now she is begging to come back. I have quit my job with the Army and moved my daughter and I out of state so I can finish graduate school. 4 year olds shouldn't be asking to go to 'Mommy's boyfriend's' when I try to be a parent to this child. The shoe is ready to drop on her and I had questions about punishment for this sort of crap. What happened in your instance. Did they end up blaming you for it. Thanks Wow Richard -
You are just like me. I couldn’t help but respond. I came across this thread while looking up punishment for adultery. My wife was deployed overseas from October 2005 through February of this year while I raised our 4 year old. I found a number of e-mails between two guys during her deployment. One was at one place and then she was transferred. This continued on with another fellow. This is absolutely disgusting. I don’t know how we can expect other cultures to live by standards when we can’t even live to them. I just assume that her and every other pig that participated in this behavior get what they deserve for this crap.

The kicker of the story is that she ran off with the second of the two guys, but I assume that has not worked out, so now she is begging to come back. I have quit my job with the Army and moved my daughter and I out of state so I can finish graduate school. 4 year olds shouldn’t be asking to go to ‘Mommy’s boyfriend’s’ when I try to be a parent to this child.

The shoe is ready to drop on her and I had questions about punishment for this sort of crap. What happened in your instance. Did they end up blaming you for it. Thanks

]]> By: ProudArmyWife http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-1868 ProudArmyWife Fri, 07 Sep 2007 04:56:48 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-1868 I have been reading this on Military Spouses cheating, and I must say, that I don't know if you think all of us are that way or just a few. My husband is deployed, and will be until sometime in 2008, but I don't put myself into a situation where I am going to cheat. We have two kids, and no matter the distance, we have an awesome life, and a love that isn't going to change bc we're apart. I don't like seeing how some of you say All Military Wives are Whores or anything like that. Bc while there are spouses like that to give spouses like me bad names, many of us don't. I know a lot of friends whose husbands are gone and none of them cheat either. Yeah it does happen, but mostly its the 18-20 yr olds who rushed into a marriage right before the soldier was deployed! I have been reading this on Military Spouses cheating, and I must say, that I don’t know if you think all of us are that way or just a few. My husband is deployed, and will be until sometime in 2008, but I don’t put myself into a situation where I am going to cheat. We have two kids, and no matter the distance, we have an awesome life, and a love that isn’t going to change bc we’re apart. I don’t like seeing how some of you say All Military Wives are Whores or anything like that. Bc while there are spouses like that to give spouses like me bad names, many of us don’t. I know a lot of friends whose husbands are gone and none of them cheat either. Yeah it does happen, but mostly its the 18-20 yr olds who rushed into a marriage right before the soldier was deployed!

]]> By: Nospacesallowed http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-2598 Nospacesallowed Sat, 03 Nov 2007 00:03:56 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-2598 You may want to block the kids face out in the second myspace profile picture as he appears underage and in some places there are laws against that type of thing. It is in the lower left-hand corner. You may want to block the kids face out in the second myspace profile picture as he appears underage and in some places there are laws against that type of thing. It is in the lower left-hand corner.

]]> By: Trel http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-2747 Trel Fri, 09 Nov 2007 22:40:41 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-2747 Right, because she's seen in public with a man that she's not related to must mean she's sleeping with him. Right, because she’s seen in public with a man that she’s not related to must mean she’s sleeping with him.

]]> By: Trel http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-2748 Trel Fri, 09 Nov 2007 22:41:31 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-2748 No need.... No need….

]]> By: J (secrets) http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-2967 J (secrets) Sat, 17 Nov 2007 07:54:18 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-2967 I am deployed in Iraq right now, and I wish someone would do this for me! I have a ton of odd things happening to me, that my wife is doing. We have 2 young boys and it would make me feel, so much better if someone could help me! Please Help me someone! Please! I am deployed in Iraq right now, and I wish someone would do this for me! I have a ton of odd things happening to me, that my wife is doing. We have 2 young boys and it would make me feel, so much better if someone could help me! Please Help me someone! Please!

]]> By: Arthur Minnich http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-3831 Arthur Minnich Tue, 18 Dec 2007 16:27:24 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-3831 This is absolutley beautiful. I wish someone had told me. I left home June 2006 for Iraq. By October my wife was having an affair. I discovered it in February 2007. After she ruined my credit, cleaned out the bank and destroyed quiet a bit of my personal items. Everybody knew but me and no one was talking. I noticed one person state, "Anyway, that is my opinion… This is a private matter between a SOLDIER and HIS spouse." No it's not. She gave up privacy when she introduced a third party to the marriage. I have extended here in Iraq for another year to pay off the marital debts. Since then she has sold almost everything of value in our home. What she didn't sell is now in her boyfriends house, (Drew Schaffer, Pine Grove, PA). My little girl now lives with mommy, boyfriend, brother and 5 dogs in a small home. PA court has shown thier understanding for this matter by leveling a $750.00 a month child support judgement against me. LOL It's unreal. She works, no longer pays rent and she is taking me back to court because she didn't get the promotion she was expecting at work. She wants more. Her boyfriend only works part time. I wonder exactly who I am supporting. All I know is this. I am tired of it. I still love my wife and I miss her more than words can say. HE is another matter. He invaded my marriage, my home and my bed. Everyday he walked through my front door he saw a picture of me with a yellow ribbon that said, "My Daddy's my hero". So he is far from innocent. He is a coward. He is what women call a "home wrecker" and he will pay. I have nothing for him. He is a low life, scum. Not worthy of breathing the air that other good people could be breathing. For now he enjoys life, my family, my wifes attention and affection. That will end. He enjoys it by my grace alone and I won't be here forever. This is absolutley beautiful. I wish someone had told me. I left home June 2006 for Iraq. By October my wife was having an affair. I discovered it in February 2007. After she ruined my credit, cleaned out the bank and destroyed quiet a bit of my personal items. Everybody knew but me and no one was talking. I noticed one person state, “Anyway, that is my opinion… This is a private matter between a SOLDIER and HIS spouse.” No it’s not. She gave up privacy when she introduced a third party to the marriage. I have extended here in Iraq for another year to pay off the marital debts. Since then she has sold almost everything of value in our home. What she didn’t sell is now in her boyfriends house, (Drew Schaffer, Pine Grove, PA). My little girl now lives with mommy, boyfriend, brother and 5 dogs in a small home. PA court has shown thier understanding for this matter by leveling a $750.00 a month child support judgement against me. LOL It’s unreal. She works, no longer pays rent and she is taking me back to court because she didn’t get the promotion she was expecting at work. She wants more. Her boyfriend only works part time. I wonder exactly who I am supporting. All I know is this. I am tired of it. I still love my wife and I miss her more than words can say. HE is another matter. He invaded my marriage, my home and my bed. Everyday he walked through my front door he saw a picture of me with a yellow ribbon that said, “My Daddy’s my hero”. So he is far from innocent. He is a coward. He is what women call a “home wrecker” and he will pay. I have nothing for him. He is a low life, scum. Not worthy of breathing the air that other good people could be breathing. For now he enjoys life, my family, my wifes attention and affection. That will end. He enjoys it by my grace alone and I won’t be here forever.

]]> By: lovemysoldier2008 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-4776 lovemysoldier2008 Fri, 18 Jan 2008 20:48:06 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-4776 I agree with you. I am a military wife. I am married to a man that is currently deployed. It is not fair that we are all cast in the same circle as the wives who cheat. I have not ever cheated on my husband nor do i have plans too. We have a daughter and my family means the most to me. I agree with you. I am a military wife. I am married to a man that is currently deployed. It is not fair that we are all cast in the same circle as the wives who cheat. I have not ever cheated on my husband nor do i have plans too. We have a daughter and my family means the most to me.

]]> By: lovemysoldier2008 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-4777 lovemysoldier2008 Fri, 18 Jan 2008 20:51:41 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-4777 Sorry to hear that happened to you. I know people in my husband's unit that are coming home to wives that are expecting and it's not theirs. I think if you are going to cheat, tell the other person and then you both can either fix it or get on with your lives. If my husband cheats on me - that is what will happen, the trust will be gone and not sure that can be rebuilt. Sorry to hear that happened to you. I know people in my husband’s unit that are coming home to wives that are expecting and it’s not theirs. I think if you are going to cheat, tell the other person and then you both can either fix it or get on with your lives. If my husband cheats on me - that is what will happen, the trust will be gone and not sure that can be rebuilt.

]]> By: Jean http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-4805 Jean Sun, 20 Jan 2008 06:58:58 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-4805 Yes some women do cheat on their husbands who are serving our country and it makes me sick but those of you who put us in the same category by saying "all military wives cheat" disgust me even more! It's hard enough dealing with a husband who is gone for a year or more without being put in the same category as a cheater. That's like saying all men are pigs! I am married to a wonderful man who is attending basic training right now and I know he will be deployed soon after coming home from basic. I also have a son who in May will also be joining. Family is everything and you have to be strong! I wouldn't ever dream of cheating on my husband. I don't recall anyones vows reading, "for better, for worse, and oh yea if he goes to war I can cheat!" It takes strong willed women to stay grounded and just because someone is in their early 20's is NO excuse to cheat on a spouse that is over in a different country fighting a war. You knew what you were getting into when you said, "I DO", and if you claim you don't then your head is in the sand! Yes some women do cheat on their husbands who are serving our country and it makes me sick but those of you who put us in the same category by saying “all military wives cheat” disgust me even more! It’s hard enough dealing with a husband who is gone for a year or more without being put in the same category as a cheater. That’s like saying all men are pigs!
I am married to a wonderful man who is attending basic training right now and I know he will be deployed soon after coming home from basic. I also have a son who in May will also be joining. Family is everything and you have to be strong! I wouldn’t ever dream of cheating on my husband. I don’t recall anyones vows reading, “for better, for worse, and oh yea if he goes to war I can cheat!”
It takes strong willed women to stay grounded and just because someone is in their early 20’s is NO excuse to cheat on a spouse that is over in a different country fighting a war. You knew what you were getting into when you said, “I DO”, and if you claim you don’t then your head is in the sand!

]]> By: Mike Paahana http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-4968 Mike Paahana Wed, 30 Jan 2008 00:14:02 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-4968 i fool aroun so much on my gf i evan like do it with her sister and i no feel bad at all so relax sista an jus have fun i fool aroun so much on my gf i evan like do it with her sister and i no feel bad at all so relax sista an jus have fun

]]> By: George http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-7535 George Sat, 10 May 2008 18:26:01 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-7535 What do you need? You people are fighting in Iraq for nothing. What do you need? You people are fighting in Iraq for nothing.

]]> By: Jeff http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-12153 Jeff Sun, 03 Aug 2008 06:21:36 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-12153 I found out my wife was cheating while I was in Afghanistan! I had a feeling something was wrong, so I hacked into her email and found their letters to each other about their contact from the night before. I was sick over it. I requested leave immediately and was home two weeks later. I wanted to kill them both, and damn near did. It took a lot for me not to. The guy she had the affair with is also in the military and has never deployed! I have been to Iraq twice and was on my first deployment in Afghanistan. As if we don't have enough on our plate without the person we are supposed to rely on the most becoming the enemy. I have not seen him yet, but it is just a matter of time before I do. I have the proof of the affair which is now with the Inspector General. He won't have a job for long, but that is still not good enough. He can't hide from me forever. As far as life goes for her. SHE lost the house and will have only visitation with the 2 children we made together. For once the father wins! I found out my wife was cheating while I was in Afghanistan! I had a feeling something was wrong, so I hacked into her email and found their letters to each other about their contact from the night before. I was sick over it. I requested leave immediately and was home two weeks later. I wanted to kill them both, and damn near did. It took a lot for me not to. The guy she had the affair with is also in the military and has never deployed! I have been to Iraq twice and was on my first deployment in Afghanistan. As if we don’t have enough on our plate without the person we are supposed to rely on the most becoming the enemy. I have not seen him yet, but it is just a matter of time before I do. I have the proof of the affair which is now with the Inspector General. He won’t have a job for long, but that is still not good enough. He can’t hide from me forever. As far as life goes for her. SHE lost the house and will have only visitation with the 2 children we made together. For once the father wins!

]]> By: Ugg http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-12319 Ugg Mon, 04 Aug 2008 16:47:43 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-12319 Wow Jeff! Thanks for the comment - it seems that dads are winning more often nowadays and sometimes with good reason to. Sorry for the circumstances, but it seems that you have the upper hand. Hopefully you make that work for you. It's cliche, but the best revenge really is living a great life. Wow Jeff!

Thanks for the comment - it seems that dads are winning more often nowadays and sometimes with good reason to.

Sorry for the circumstances, but it seems that you have the upper hand. Hopefully you make that work for you. It’s cliche, but the best revenge really is living a great life.

]]> By: DocLong http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-13157 DocLong Mon, 11 Aug 2008 05:22:21 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-13157 How did you get home? My parents found my wife cheating on me. I'm currently in Iraq. I can't be here any longer. What can I do? How did you get home? My parents found my wife cheating on me. I’m currently in Iraq. I can’t be here any longer. What can I do?

]]> By: Jeff http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-13386 Jeff Tue, 19 Aug 2008 21:46:15 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-13386 Go to the chaplain first! Then you need to change all your accounts so she doesn't have access to anything!!! I also had a close professional relationship with my SGM. He helped out a lot. I was granted my leave within 2 weeks of finding out. Once I returned home I also found out she hadn't paid the mortgage in a year and the kids were suffering from her poor parenting practices with school grades slipping and tremendous weight gain with my older son. I was allowed to remain at my home while getting my personal affairs in order so I didn't lose everything. I can do without her anyday, but when it effects the children, that is a different story. She will be the one to lose everything now, not me. The biggest thing is getting your chain of command involved, especially the chaplain. But you have to keep your cool in the process. If you appear to be unstable in any way, you will not go anywhere in case you are a danger to others or yourself. Keep in mind, that a wife that cheats on you while you are deployed isn't worth pissing on if she is on fire, no matter how much you love her, and no matter how much it hurts, she is lower that dirt! Go to the chaplain first! Then you need to change all your accounts so she doesn’t have access to anything!!! I also had a close professional relationship with my SGM. He helped out a lot. I was granted my leave within 2 weeks of finding out. Once I returned home I also found out she hadn’t paid the mortgage in a year and the kids were suffering from her poor parenting practices with school grades slipping and tremendous weight gain with my older son. I was allowed to remain at my home while getting my personal affairs in order so I didn’t lose everything. I can do without her anyday, but when it effects the children, that is a different story. She will be the one to lose everything now, not me. The biggest thing is getting your chain of command involved, especially the chaplain. But you have to keep your cool in the process. If you appear to be unstable in any way, you will not go anywhere in case you are a danger to others or yourself. Keep in mind, that a wife that cheats on you while you are deployed isn’t worth pissing on if she is on fire, no matter how much you love her, and no matter how much it hurts, she is lower that dirt!

]]> By: Jeff http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-13387 Jeff Tue, 19 Aug 2008 21:54:18 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-13387 Just one more piece to add to this. There are a lot of loyal spouses out there that are dealing with their soldiers deployment with dignity and doing the right thing. I know it must be extremely diffcult, whether it is the first deployment or if there have been multiple. The spouses at home have it very tough as well, and they deserve the utmost respect. Just wish my wife could have been one of them. If you find comments on here from individuals showing their protest, don't let it bother you, we fight so they can have their opinions, no matter what they are. Besides, protesting an individual soldier proves their ignorance. Just one more piece to add to this. There are a lot of loyal spouses out there that are dealing with their soldiers deployment with dignity and doing the right thing. I know it must be extremely diffcult, whether it is the first deployment or if there have been multiple. The spouses at home have it very tough as well, and they deserve the utmost respect. Just wish my wife could have been one of them.

If you find comments on here from individuals showing their protest, don’t let it bother you, we fight so they can have their opinions, no matter what they are. Besides, protesting an individual soldier proves their ignorance.

]]> By: Jeff http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-13389 Jeff Tue, 19 Aug 2008 22:08:07 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-13389 George, you are an idiot... George, you are an idiot…

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