Comments on: *CAUGHT!* – I’m Cheating On My Husband With My Best Friend While My Husband Is Deployed In Iraq… http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/ AskUgg.com discusses Cheating, Relationships, Dating, Sex, Intimacy, Infidelity, and more! Thu, 02 Feb 2012 13:27:44 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.4 By: john doe http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-64456 john doe Wed, 01 Feb 2012 21:31:08 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-64456 this is in response to jane doe. You know I was married for 5.5 years. Let me tell you my little story. I never not once cheated yes the thought crossed my mind and in God's eyes I already did cheat but the fact of the matter is I did not engage in any sexual act outside my marriage. This fucking bitch cheated on me with 6 different guys in less than a fucking year. She put our bank account which was at $7000.00 to -$1000.00 and bought a 2005 Ford Taurus in 2010 with over 50,000 miles on it marked at $15,000.00 on the lot... To top it off 24.9% APR had no fucking clue what APR even stood for mind you... This fucking bitch when I fucking tried to leave her attempted suicide and put herself in ICU when I got to ICU she told me if I left her she would kill herself. So at this point do not even fucking judge military men off something that may have happened to you FUCK YOU you grimy ass bitch. O and btw this bitch drove MY CAR that is in ME and MY mothers name back to Bama from New York which is a LEASED CAR and drives it 45 minutes back and forth to work everyday... I told her I would give her all the money from taxes so she could get a new car and give the one she has to me so I could sell the one I have and lower my car bills and insurance about $400-$500 dollars which would make it around $350-$400 a month vs $800-$900 a month and she had the audacity to tell me that I was selfish? BITCHES ARE FUCKING WACKED AND RETARDED. So back the fuck off the military GOT IT BITCH? this is in response to jane doe. You know I was married for 5.5 years. Let me tell you my little story. I never not once cheated yes the thought crossed my mind and in God’s eyes I already did cheat but the fact of the matter is I did not engage in any sexual act outside my marriage. This fucking bitch cheated on me with 6 different guys in less than a fucking year. She put our bank account which was at $7000.00 to -$1000.00 and bought a 2005 Ford Taurus in 2010 with over 50,000 miles on it marked at $15,000.00 on the lot… To top it off 24.9% APR had no fucking clue what APR even stood for mind you… This fucking bitch when I fucking tried to leave her attempted suicide and put herself in ICU when I got to ICU she told me if I left her she would kill herself. So at this point do not even fucking judge military men off something that may have happened to you FUCK YOU you grimy ass bitch. O and btw this bitch drove MY CAR that is in ME and MY mothers name back to Bama from New York which is a LEASED CAR and drives it 45 minutes back and forth to work everyday… I told her I would give her all the money from taxes so she could get a new car and give the one she has to me so I could sell the one I have and lower my car bills and insurance about $400-$500 dollars which would make it around $350-$400 a month vs $800-$900 a month and she had the audacity to tell me that I was selfish? BITCHES ARE FUCKING WACKED AND RETARDED. So back the fuck off the military GOT IT BITCH?

]]> By: emir http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-57481 emir Fri, 09 Dec 2011 15:17:00 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-57481 well i am sorry for your husband and for you. i did not know american soldiers have this kind of problems. we must stop the war that destroys the lives of you and ours. well i am sorry for your husband and for you. i did not know american soldiers have this kind of problems. we must stop the war that destroys the lives of you and ours.

]]> By: emir http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-57479 emir Fri, 09 Dec 2011 15:11:19 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-57479 how can a soldier cheat in iraq? this is more than funny. how can a soldier cheat in iraq? this is more than funny.

]]> By: you are making excuses http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-50800 you are making excuses Wed, 21 Sep 2011 14:00:34 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-50800 When I was in Iraq the male to female ratio was about 40 to 1. I wasn't in kuwait or qatar where the female ratio was better. The majority of male soldiers in Iraq do NOT have the opportunity for an affair, even if they wanted to have one. With one female to forty males, the female has the pick of the litter, I.E. , if the males were not a mid to high ranking officer, or a chippendale model, they are not considered for sex by one of the few available women. It just sounds like you are trying to justify your own desires and behavior. And yes, I only met five female soldiers who were faithful to their boyfriends and husbands while they deployed. When I was in Iraq the male to female ratio was about 40 to 1. I wasn’t in kuwait or qatar where the female ratio was better. The majority of male soldiers in Iraq do NOT have the opportunity for an affair, even if they wanted to have one. With one female to forty males, the female has the pick of the litter, I.E. , if the males were not a mid to high ranking officer, or a chippendale model, they are not considered for sex by one of the few available women. It just sounds like you are trying to justify your own desires and behavior. And yes, I only met five female soldiers who were faithful to their boyfriends and husbands while they deployed.

]]> By: Sammy http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-50434 Sammy Tue, 13 Sep 2011 19:33:20 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-50434 I'm a military wife and a mother of 1 and my husband has left on 2 separate occasions and both times cheated the last time I decided it was time for divorce. It wasnt with any civilians it's with female soldiers and I couldn't even get them for adultery because the army makes it impossible to prove even if it's on paper that they clearly did the act. If the army wanted you to have a family they would've issused you one. I’m a military wife and a mother of 1 and my husband has left on 2 separate occasions and both times cheated the last time I decided it was time for divorce. It wasnt with any civilians it’s with female soldiers and I couldn’t even get them for adultery because the army makes it impossible to prove even if it’s on paper that they clearly did the act. If the army wanted you to have a family they would’ve issused you one.

]]> By: T&g http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-49787 T&g Fri, 02 Sep 2011 05:53:07 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-49787 I'm sorry to hear you had a whore of a fiance but I can tell you not all girlfriends, wives and fiances are the same way. I'm an army wife and have never or will ever cheat. I have to much respect for my husband to do that to him. You haven't found a good girl that actually understands that theres more to a relationship than getting laid. Good luck in your next relationship if you decide to try again. I’m sorry to hear you had a whore of a fiance but I can tell you not all girlfriends, wives and fiances are the same way. I’m an army wife and have never or will ever cheat. I have to much respect for my husband to do that to him. You haven’t found a good girl that actually understands that theres more to a relationship than getting laid. Good luck in your next relationship if you decide to try again.

]]> By: Null13 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-49652 Null13 Tue, 30 Aug 2011 15:16:28 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-49652 I just want to say this is a horrible thing to do. I am a military wife, went through one deployment with my then boyfriend, now husband and we are facing our second one. It is bad that she is doing this, true. However it is a double edged sword and men do it too. Not 99% as the person stated previously. The truth is, there are true gentleman and nice guys in the military, and then there are douchebags that can't keep it in their pants either.....it is humans that join the military. So when you look at the human race, you see the men, and then you see the ones striving to even be boys. You choose who you love, and in that....sometimes you accept that behavior. As far as what happened here about letting him, I must STRONGLY disagree with your actions. I am not condoning cheating, but for 2 reasons, 2 really BIG reasons....it was not a wise idea. 1. it was not your business, quit throwing stones when you yourself could a boulder cast on you....and that isn't religion, because I am not religious really. But I do believe people have the tendency to judge others when they themselves are far worse or the same..... and my main one....just in case you think someone else's life is your business 2. You must not be military in any form....or you would KNOW that while someone is deployed, they are STRESSED they are SAD they are DEPRESSED. They miss their life, their sanity in the U.S. and they are in a highly stressful situation. You should not tell someone that when they are deployed. If ANYONE should, it would be who they are with. Because depending on who it is, you may cause someone to commit suicide, which is a real big problem the military faces. And NO it wouldn't be the cheaters fault, solely. It would be you both. You decided to tell a military guy that his girl that he loves is cheating when he has far too much stress anyways. So before you go on a troll search and want to help someone try minding your own business, and not improvising someone's safety for your own little thrill seeking drama. get a life. ps I found this article, while searching on google for safety tips for spouses while husband is deployed. I just want to say this is a horrible thing to do. I am a military wife, went through one deployment with my then boyfriend, now husband and we are facing our second one. It is bad that she is doing this, true. However it is a double edged sword and men do it too. Not 99% as the person stated previously. The truth is, there are true gentleman and nice guys in the military, and then there are douchebags that can’t keep it in their pants either…..it is humans that join the military. So when you look at the human race, you see the men, and then you see the ones striving to even be boys. You choose who you love, and in that….sometimes you accept that behavior. As far as what happened here about letting him, I must STRONGLY disagree with your actions. I am not condoning cheating, but for 2 reasons, 2 really BIG reasons….it was not a wise idea.
1. it was not your business, quit throwing stones when you yourself could a boulder cast on you….and that isn’t religion, because I am not religious really. But I do believe people have the tendency to judge others when they themselves are far worse or the same…..
and my main one….just in case you think someone else’s life is your business
2. You must not be military in any form….or you would KNOW that while someone is deployed, they are STRESSED they are SAD they are DEPRESSED. They miss their life, their sanity in the U.S. and they are in a highly stressful situation. You should not tell someone that when they are deployed. If ANYONE should, it would be who they are with. Because depending on who it is, you may cause someone to commit suicide, which is a real big problem the military faces. And NO it wouldn’t be the cheaters fault, solely. It would be you both. You decided to tell a military guy that his girl that he loves is cheating when he has far too much stress anyways.

So before you go on a troll search and want to help someone try minding your own business, and not improvising someone’s safety for your own little thrill seeking drama. get a life.

ps
I found this article, while searching on google for safety tips for spouses while husband is deployed.

]]> By: John http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-45611 John Mon, 06 Jun 2011 02:53:09 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-45611 HELL YEAH, BRO! I hope she never recovers from having a good family broken up because she's a complete whore. I wish you the best and hope you find a good woman that can think of someone OTHER than her fucking self! HELL YEAH, BRO! I hope she never recovers from having a good family broken up because she’s a complete whore.

I wish you the best and hope you find a good woman that can think of someone OTHER than her fucking self!

]]> By: Miracle http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-44783 Miracle Wed, 18 May 2011 20:59:33 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-44783 I hate whores... I hate whores…

]]> By: tara sharpe http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-44007 tara sharpe Sat, 30 Apr 2011 14:37:21 +0000 http://www.askugg.com/2007/03/09/caught-im-cheating-on-my-husband-with-my-best-friend-while-my-husband-is-deployed-in-iraq/#comment-44007 I wish I could agree with you but I've seen way too many spouses do exactly what they are saying and it just kills me. I can see why they say this. You and the other women that have enough self control to stay faithful are really good people but the sad truth is you (we) are diamonds in the rough. I have two ex friends who were cheating on their husbands and i did all i could to guilt them out of it but it just didn't work. Maybe if they knew what was going on overseas, they would stop trying to justify their unfaithfulness and stop being so damn selfish. I really appreciate you're love for your husband, it's so rare nowadays. I have the upmost respect for you and i can relate, i never ever would even dream of cheating on my hubby who's now deployed. -I'm in the military and my husbands in the military I wish I could agree with you but I’ve seen way too many spouses do exactly what they are saying and it just kills me. I can see why they say this. You and the other women that have enough self control to stay faithful are really good people but the sad truth is you (we) are diamonds in the rough. I have two ex friends who were cheating on their husbands and i did all i could to guilt them out of it but it just didn’t work. Maybe if they knew what was going on overseas, they would stop trying to justify their unfaithfulness and stop being so damn selfish. I really appreciate you’re love for your husband, it’s so rare nowadays. I have the upmost respect for you and i can relate, i never ever would even dream of cheating on my hubby who’s now deployed.

-I’m in the military and my husbands in the military

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